Here's my situation. How do I cope? What do I do? > both 32> together 4.5 years> gf checks almost all boxes (lovely, cute, loyal, caring, good sex, ...)> unchecks intelligence> have to explain her simple things constantly> have to always remind her of tasks> always blames problems on others> feels like living with a teenagerWe're thinking about kids, house and stuff. But to me it feels like I'll have to do thinking for 2 (or later 3) people. Last week, she tried plugging a USB cable into a 230V power socket. I'm afraid she'd accidentally kill our baby if we had one. She keeps forgetting important things, like how to start the car. She can't do basic math in her head and isn't good with finances. I'm torn. I get you won't find a girl that checks _all_ boxes, but how do you cope with a non-intelligent gf? Will it bite my ass in the future?
Of course it'll snowball into a bigger problem.> always blames problems on othersSounds like you already have a snowball rolling
>>33852914Thats cute
>>33852914>(lovely, cute, loyal, caring, good sex, ...)>intelligenceAny girl you find will be missing one of these qualities. If you really think about the implications of that, you are probably in the best possible circumstance right now. I suppose looks fade as you both age, so at best I might be willing to trade a dumb girl for an ugly girl in a LTR, but the rest are non negotiable qualities and rarer in today's society than you might think.
>>33854479Intelligence or atleast common sense is the top trait that should be required. It doesn't matter how cute, loyal, caring, etc she is. If she's a fucking moron she will bring you down. You don't need the smart wife/dumb husband combo but your woman should atleast know finances and proper home care. My soon to be ex is a slob ass bitch and I should of taken that seriously to how intelligent she is.
>>33854505Spoken like someone who has never dated a woman who is a toxic bitch, a whore, self centered and inconsiderate, or bad at/disinterested in sex.Why are you relying on your woman to do the finances? You're the man. This is your responsibility. Get her a secured card with a limit and hire a fucking mexican to clean your house for $100 every 2 weeks. Problems solved EZ.
>>33854505Sounds like you're the retard in this relationship desu
