/adv/ - I need to cut someone out of my life who really hu - Advice

Anonymous

10/25/25(Sat)15:59:13 No.33855160

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Anonymous 10/25/25(Sat)15:59:13 No.33855160 Archived

I need to cut someone out of my life who really hurt me. Should I tell them I'm leaving and say goodbye to give them closure? or should I just ghost them and spare myself the manipulation and lies? I feel like saying goodbye is the more moral choice, but I really don't want to.

Anonymous
10/25/25(Sat)16:26:01 No.33855200

Anonymous 10/25/25(Sat)16:26:01 No.33855200

>>33855160
hey you really didnt need to use this picture for this post

Anonymous
10/25/25(Sat)22:11:22 No.33856459

Anonymous 10/25/25(Sat)22:11:22 No.33856459

>>33855160
Ghosting is not a very nice thing to do

Anonymous
10/25/25(Sat)22:18:44 No.33856479

Anonymous 10/25/25(Sat)22:18:44 No.33856479

>>33856459
Shitty people aren't owed closure.

Anonymous
10/26/25(Sun)17:16:43 No.33860025

Anonymous 10/26/25(Sun)17:16:43 No.33860025

>>33855160
Say goodbye over text or something, tell them why, then ghost them

Anonymous
10/26/25(Sun)17:33:02 No.33860130

Anonymous 10/26/25(Sun)17:33:02 No.33860130

>>33855160
You don't have to talk to them at all. Just fuck off and leave them unanswered.

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)13:15:33 No.33864045

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)13:15:33 No.33864045

>>33855160
put them under a concrete slab

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)14:24:02 No.33864251

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)14:24:02 No.33864251

>>33855160
If they think so little of you that they hurt you enough to cut contact what makes you believe they think about you at all enough to remember you exist when you don’t talk to them as it is? Ghost them.

Anonymous
10/27/25(Mon)15:18:44 No.33864478

Anonymous 10/27/25(Mon)15:18:44 No.33864478

>>33855160
Do not ghost them, it is cowardly. Just say goodbye and block them