so i am 22 years old female and i have been with my 21 year old male bf for 1.5 years and when we first started dating we used to fuck every day and it was amazing. i feel like now every time we fuck it’s super disappointing, and he literally cums in me after lazily fucking me for 3 minutes after i gave him immaculate head for twice as long. i am not ugly and have not had this problem before. i feel like he is either like depressed, gay, or uninterested in me atp. sex is rlly important to me and i told him this tn and he was just like “sorry”. like dude i don’t even know what to say. i haven’t gotten properly fucked by him in at least like 8 months. like it is always some lame sex. i know he can fuck so idk what i should do bc i cannot deal with this for much longer.
>>33857290>has sex frequently>i can not deal with this for much longeri don't think you realize the things that you take for granted.
He's either bored of you or is depressed. Have you tried telling him what specifically he can do during sex to make things enjoyable for you?
>>33857290You have a mouth, that can presumably be used for more than blowjobs. Talk to him
>>33858088kek
He's bored of you Start talking about how hot other guys are in front of him. If he barely gives a fuck, leave
>>33857290Ugh I couldn’t even finish reading that. You’re just a very boring person, sorry.
>>33857290 listen because from what it sounds like he could be secretly watching porn and its lowering his desire for you, but he's probably trapped and wants to desire you again. But he's too ashamed to bring it up to you so it will slowly bleed the relationship to death unless you bring it up to him about it and get him to stop.
>>33857290You've made sex into a chore. That's how it felt with my Ex who had an extremely high sex drive where all the relationship became to me was the sex.You have to make him want to desire it too you know. If he comes home thinking "Ah Stacy wants me to fuck her again" rather than "I want to tear her fucking clothes off" you're doing it wrong.Dress up, be a tease, do something instead of being boring. You need to make him desire you
>>33857290how much did you weigh when you started dating him, and how much do you weigh now?
>>33858438You are gay.
>>33857290A real, non-incel answer: Guys too easily fall into a complacent taking-it-for-granted mode. If there is nothing "wrong" it doesn't occur to them that it could be better. You have to be more pro-active, but do so in a positive way - not "Our sex is bad" but "Let's do____ like we did that one time"
>>33858024no dude it’s more like twice a month atp. kill me
>>33858134i said i can easily find a guy that will have sex with me and he just seemed sad>>33858339i don’t wanna be that gf about porn bc i also watch porn sometimes but i also am still willing to fuck my boyfriend. i tried to ask him how much he is jerking off and he would not give me a good answer>>33858438honestly i feel like a whore when i try to do stuff like that. i put effort into my appearance (hair, makeup, clothes) so i feel like that should be enough. also clearly when we have sex i put in like twice as much effort as him.>>33858449i am actually like 20 lbs thinner than when we first started dating. he doesn’t seem to have even noticed and family and friends have. he was like oh you’ve lost weight? so i guess he do not really care lol.>>33858581i will try i just feels awkward having to ask sometimes ughhh
>>33857290Kek, imagine this poor motherfucker is worried sick about work and bills and some real shit while his roastie girlfriend is behind his back like "reeee why doesn't he fuck me like a prostitute anymore?! I'll cheat on him!". Women are just straight up retarded whores and should have no rights. I hope you get what you deserve, OP, loneliness and childless old age.
>>33857290dump him and get with a 40+ year old who knows what the fuck they are doing
>>33857290>>3385905738 yr old who knows what the fuck they are doing after having a "But what about my needs?" argument with an ex that precipitated a lot of introspection and self work here.Sup OP?
>>33859075>38 yr oldI said 40+ but you have 2 years to learn what the fuck you are doing
>>33859057This. Honestly women in their early 20s going for older guys is the best way for marriages to work. The guy is experienced and has money, while the girl is in her prime youth and fertility.
