>22m, work in IT>Never had a gf, 0 romantic experiences, pretty much no female friends>Raised with the belief that my first time should be with someone special>Hate parties and most social interactions, I just like to chill by myself or with my close friendsLooking at my hobbies and my social life, I realize I'm probably still years or even decades away from getting a gf. That doesn't really bother me much, I'm generally content with my life and hobbies as is. I am however getting an increased amount of thoughts about having sex, to the point that I find myself just thinking about booking a session with a prostitute/escort instead of masturbating, to just kinda check it off and see if it's worth all the thoughts and fantasies. Do I just pull the trigger on that, or do I keep resisting the urge and stick to the belief of my first time being with someone special? Is losing my virginity to a prostitute something I'll definitely regret later, or just the quick way to checking sex off of the to-do list?Have any anons here maybe pulled the trigger on this exact scenario? What are your thoughts on it?
>>33857486do you think men have a "virginity" to lose? how would a woman know you've lost it? you're still going to be the same awkward nerd afterward. anyway yea if you really want sex and it's legal and/or easily available there's no reason not to get a qt escort who will play girlfriend with you for a night.
>>33857486I actually regret losing it with the normie gf I did. I think it would have been a lot cooler to lose it with a 10/10 escort of my own choosing who was at least pretending to like me and enjoy being with me.
>>33857530I don't care about the optics or being labeled as a virgin. I was just thinking about having sex for the sake of experiencing it myself; I'm just not sure if it's either worth the wait for "the right person" or the money for an escort>>33857536So you did it with a gf who openly didn't even like you? Or is that just a retrospective thought? And I'd assume, if you could, you'd financially go all out on your first time? Or would it not be worth the money?
Honestly, I'd recommend it. I fucked a ton of prostitutes before actually getting a gf, and being fairly experienced helped a lot, especially when I remember how awkward it was to have sex for the first time.
>>33857486>Raised with the belief that my first time should be with someone specialI was raised the same way bud. Lets put it this way, past a certain point women become increasingly unattracted to men who have no experience with sex. When youre young it can be cute. But men are expected to lead in the bedroom, and if you get older and have no experience it becomes a stench on your character and raises red flags. Why hasn't this guy gotten laid yet? Whats wrong with him that other girls dont wanna sleep with him? Girls can smell the awkwardness of inexperience and they dont wanna stick around to find out where it's coming from.I think its probably best to just get it out of the way and start to get some experience under your belt (pun intended). It's really not a big deal, your first time isnt gonna be the best sex you'll ever have, far from it. If you go the escort route, do your research, be safe, and pick a nice girl that you like and is newbie friendly. Have a fun time, and feel good for doing it. And look forward to the fact that the sex will get better and better the more you do it. Your future partners will appreciate that you can take charge in those situations and know how to treat a woman well.
>>33857486First of all, you have no virginity you need to lose. But if you want to have sex, sure, why not. When I can't find someone to fuck quickly, I just go to a prostitute, so I've fucked hundreds of them in different parts of the world. But I'm very sexually active, and if you don't want to, that's also okay, but you can at least try it out. Also, many prostitutes love first-timers and have a special service for them.
>>33857486>>33857582How likely do you think it is for you to actually meet and court this "right person" for you to lose your virginity with?How long do you think it will take for that chance to be realized?Are you willing to wait that long in the first place?There's nothing wrong with a little blackpill thinking if it leads you to a better outcome than meaningless fantasies that don't exist in reality.
>>33857486>>Raised with the belief that my first time should be with someone specialThis is literally how every single one of these "virgin guy at 30" ends up happening. They have these delusional ideals of "true love" that only exist to exploit you.Let me tell you that the great majority of girls have been sucking and fucking since 14. If you get a gf now, chances are she's been passed around for ALMOST A DECADE.My advice is that you accept reality, reject these delusions, learn game and get laid as soon as you find a girl that you like that likes you back.If you really really can't find a girl to save your life, then yes, go hire a hooker. In traditional societies, fathers used to hire one for their son as soon as he was 15 or so. In this way they prevented incels and also the kid won't be easily manipulated by women once he knows that sex isn't all that.You should definitely try to socialize and be more outgoing, and try to organically meet a woman through friends. But if you try this and it doesn't work, definitely get a hooker. It's better to do that than to suffer the feeling of worthlessness from being a virgin at an advanced age.
>>33863929>the great majority of girls have been sucking and fucking since 14. If you get a gf now, chances are she's been passed around for ALMOST A DECADEI wouldn't have an issue with this if those same women weren't so violently hateful towards people who weren't part of the club that started that early.
Can't believe my first time was with someone I thought I loved but wasn't particularly attracted to at 20 instead of the loose sexy chick that wanted me to hit at 16. What a moron I was!
>>33857486That shit about saving it for someone special is for women and to promote abstinence lol. As a man you are supposed to lose your virginity as soon as possible and it doesn't really matter who it's with. Most people's first time having sex is awkward and not that pleasurable either. Basically when you look back at losing your virginity you're not going to really care or hold it in high regard anyways. Just get the escort and have fun with it.
>>33857486If you have to ask, then no
Wow, so many anons ITT are so sad. Hookers are for when you're done with women, not for when you're just getting started. Losing your v-card to one is sad.The "experience" thing is bullshit, your body will know what to do. OP you're 22. You're still young, if you were 32 then I'd be worried. . If you stop being such a sad sack you'll definitely find at least one chick to fuck you. I met my first GF when I was 20 at a fucking brony meetup of all places, and even though we only lasted a couple of years I'm so glad my first time was with her and not some whore who kicks me out the door as soon as I cum.These days I'm much older and have become disillusioned with women so I do a LOT of mongering, trust me it wouldn't be ideal for your first time and any of the anons ITT saying otherwise are coping and trying to drag you down to their levelOne life to life, faggot>>33863929>In traditional societies, fathers used to hire one for their son as soon as he was 15 or so.Straight up bullshit. Are you taking history lessons from Andrew Tate and Myron Gaines? In truly "traditional" societies the sons are married by 15 you dipshit.
>>33865116>when you look back at losing your virginity you're not going to really care or hold it in high regard anywaysI do, but maybe because instead of some hooker who fucked five other men that day and walked out the door as soon as I came, I lost it to a tight-bodied young college girl on birth control who let me cum inside her. Losing my virginity will always be in my top 3 sexual experiences, and at this point I've had more hookers than you've had hot dinners (though a threesome I had with two Korean smokeshows for $500 is also in that top 3)
