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I was a virgin my whole life. I was kissing my girl when she asked me it suck on her nipples. I was a bit weirded out by it: reason being I saw in porn games the character sucking on the nipple is the one getting dominated, and I don't want to be a sub. Plus we are in a traditional relationship, so I don't want to do things that comprise our culture (or makes me, the provider, look like a submissive bitch).
Is my fear on nipple sucking warranted? What are other no no sexual acts, and which are fine?
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>>33858303
One of lifes grestest joys is sucking on a hot girls titty while she cums her brains out.

If it's not stated to be a dom/sub dynamic, it's not. It's just a request that helps your lover get off, which in turn gets you more sex.
"no no" acts are ones you or your partner aren't comfortable with, that's it.

Ask her what she likes, what she wants you to do to her and what she wants to do to you, tell her the same; figure out what's on the menu and what isn't.
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>>33858325
That's reassuring. I'm a gulliable guy, and I don't want to look like the idiot of the relationship.
Thanks anon, I'll talk to her about this.
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>>33858303
How did you break out of virgindom OP?
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>>33858436
Family connections.
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>>33858303
Not everything in sex is power-related. If there is any sort of "competition" it should be which can give the most pleasure to the other.
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>>33858303
>sucking on nipples is the most natural thing in the world
>get weirded out by it because of brain damage you received from porn games and 4chan memes from when you were 12 years old

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>>33858488
I think what the anon was asking was how did you manage to get your dick hard and put it inside a girl without hitting a bunch of equally retarded mental roadblocks derived from porn games and 4chan memes like "having sex with a woman is gay" and "she sucked a thousand Chad dicks before kissing you"
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>>33858629
>which can give the most pleasure to the other
t. cuck
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>>33858629
I understand but you gotta realize what kind of person I am.
On our first time I didn't know where my penis should be in, she had to guide me (she was a virgin too, I saw blood!). I am a porn addict, but for 15+ years, I was disgusted by the actual act of sex. I just got off on touching and oral.
I am saying this because I am completely innocent on what actual sex is. All my experience is the first half of hentai. So I'm not sure if she asks me to do something, if it's super humiliating and she's shittesting me.
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>>33858303
I hadn't laughed like I did when reading this OP post in a long time. Thanks OP you're retardation and autism levels gave me a good time.
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>>33859779
Hey I might be retarded, but I am earnestly retarded. Instead of making million threads about an e-girl pianist, I confusingly suck nipples like a downie newborn.
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>>33859760
If you really think she is the kind of woman who would want to humiliate you, you shouldn't be with her in the first place.



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