I wanna be like a little succubus demon, but it seems like it's a lot harder for hetero men than for hetero women.
Bump also make with bpd
>>33858504Well, desu, I am not full blown bpd, but histrionics, and narcissists sometimes, are supposed to be kinda charming.I think I can be, I have to, in order to impress so others validate me, but romantically I kinda have nothing going, maybe because I never really tried, since my abysmily low self-esteem tells me no woman would want me.But lately a girl really wanted me and kissed me, I feel like being more confident in approaching girls now, but here's the second problem: My brain gets overly attached to one person, which hinders me to seek out other people in that regard.
>>33858512And I had a revelation:Women really want the exact same thing I want. So it's easy to give it to them, since I know exactly what to do. I am a master at validation, appreciation, making someone feel seen, catering to their emotions and do gleefully so. It's just when I get depressed I tend to withdraw, don't withdraw Anon, withdrawal is social poison to your life.
>>33858519>Women really want the exact same thing I want. So it's easy to give it to them, since I know exactly what to do. I am a master at validation, appreciation, making someone feel seen, catering to their emotions and do gleefully so. It's just when I get depressed I tend to withdraw, don't withdraw Anon, withdrawal is social poison to your life.And I had a revelation:For some fucking reason, every single BPDwhore exaggerates everything. It's so obvious because of how arrogant they speak. Fuck you, my advice for you is to leave. You ruined peoples lives, demon.
>>33858403If you really have BPD you will go through your entire life hurting every woman you encounter as you desperately try to find as much love and validation as you possibly can to fill the black hole where your heart should be. And then on top of that black hole you will also feel the shame and regret that comes with hurting and losing all those women.Your best options are:1. Be brutally honest with every woman you meet that you are incapable of monogamy and hope you can find enough people through your life to get by until you get too old to keep anyone around and die alone.or2. An hero now.Ask me how I know.Good luck OP
>>33858880Dude, I haven't even been in a fucking relationship yet, like, how am I supposed to ruin anyone's life by self-isolating?
>>33858904>An hero now.What?Anyway, apparently I only have partly BPD and am histrionic and narcissistic otherwise, and since I can hardly keep it to myself they will definitely know.I became very good friends with a former bpd and still bd girl, we are like siblings now. Only people of tgat kind really get me.Maybe one day a normal girl will come my way, but until then, let's see
>>33858904>incapable of monogamyBold of you to assume, I would be extremely devoted, and open relationships are kinda a thing now and I don't have anything against that.It would be hot to suck a dick together with my girl
>>33859428>>An hero now.>What?newfags get off this website. i fucking hate /adv/
>>33859524>i fucking hate /adv/Then why are you here?
>>33859524Well, I figured it meant kys, I was just surprised someone would write something so insensitive
>>33859587>insensitive>4chan
>>33859646Where did all the love between anons go?
>>33859727Oh you!
I see there are a lot of prejudices against BPF sufferers, but I can seriously say, that many of them are honestly the nicest people I know, since they understand pain on a deeper level
>>33861978That's because they spared you from getting too close to them. They're good if they keep you arm's length but so is pretty much everyone else that isn't a third worldert. dated 2 BPD women
>>33858403Sam vaknin.Thank me later by being your best.Listen. Trust.
>>33859587This is 4chan. You're gonna find "insensitive" shit here. It has the reputation it does for a reason>This shit's like tip of the iceberg compared to the shit on boards like /pol/ or some shit like that.
depends on how good looking the dude is honestly. femanon here with hot bpd guy (10 yrs and counting)
>>33859394BPD is to men how women view NPD. You are a demon in every way, and if you ever came near my friends, I would drive my friend away from whatever town you came from. You are a demon that ruins lives, and you are spiritually Indian, BPDwhore.
>>33862646>BPDwhoreDude, I AM a man.
>>33862921There is no difference.>>33858519>Women really want the exact same thing I want. So it's easy to give it to them, since I know exactly what to do.I lived as a NEET within a BPDwhore household and you people ruined my life until I got a GED and went homeless. You are a whore, both mentally and physically, you are a whore.
>>33862941>you peopleYou have worse black and white thinking than a BPD sufferer. Become more dialectical, understand the other point of view and that not all people of a group are the same
>>33862958>worse black and white thinkingThe world works on black and white thinking, retard. You exist, or you don't, you are either rich, or you are not.>not all people of a group are the sameThis is the type of mindset that will kill you once you are on the road. Either you identify with a group, or you suffer. You have never lived life in scarcity and it shows. This sort of bullshit is a privilege that was announced to the masses, you are defending a whoredom mentality. They are not human, they cannot understand what people went through, and they will ruin everything by their sole trait of being louder than everybody else.>oh but they're a diamond in the rough>oh but she won't be that bad>oh but it'll work this timeand, every fucking time, it predictably fails.
>>33862983>you are either rich, or you are notWhat is a middle class?>Either you identify with a group, or you suffer.Well, I guess I identify more with people who suffer from and understand mental conditions. Open-mindedness is a must for me
>be manipulative asshole>feel good about it at times>feel bad about it at other times>make disease upfuck bpd people
>>33863069>be manipulative assholeYou can choose to be manipulative or not, I just deal with my feelings myself
>>33862254Mhh, yeah. When hot I want to invest into this emotional intensity
Bump
>>33858403Brother it's hell even for mentally balanced individuals.
>>33866686I don't think I am do bad. I had an uncomfortable situation with a BPD woman, it was just a friendship on my side, but she acted out, because she wasn't honest with me about her feelings, so I ended things.I wouldn't do such bull shit
>>33867191so bad*
>>33866686Sorry, I am retarded. You meant finding love is hell.Indeed
>>33862941nta sounds like you ruined your own life by making some bad choices there champ
>>33862983>you are either rich, or you are not.there's a huge difference between poverty, middle class, rich, and elite. the world exists in stars of gray and you seem like the most mentally ill person itt
>>33862983what happened to this anon to end up like this? i feel bad for him, but wow
>>33863069>be manipulative asshole>be hotyes. *fuck* bpd people. i highly recommend it as long as they’re an appropriate level of hotness to match.
