Advice on how to be a better boyfriend?
>>33858943Be the man.
>>33858943Well what's your relationship life first of all.
>>33859006I'm trying to avoid dating because I was a shitty boyfriend. I avoid emotional connection because I am afraid of people not liking what they see when they see the real me. I also suffer erectile dysfunction as a result of years and years of exclusively watching incest porn.So I want to find a way to actually become a better boyfriend rather than pretending to be one
>>33859049Well what's the real you, other than the degenerate shit? Pretty sure you know what to do, quit porn and make your dick work again. I swear men nowadays...
>>33859146I did quit porn but the fantasies persist and I still masturbate to them despite not wanting to. It's stronger than me, I know I will feel horribly depressed afterwards and I still give in despite having quit pornAnd as to the real me I guess I wish I could just be able to be a better person and live a simple quiet life in a cozy place but that won't happen if things keep going like this
>>33859359Then put Jesus as your wallpaper for your phone, computer, and one above your bed. You'll be made too uncomfortable to coom. I managed to quit porn and masturbation by blocking all nsfw things online and putting religious imagery everywhere.
>>33859406I my faith is pretty weak but I would love to actually believe. May I ask what made you convicted in the divinity of Jesus? I know this is off topic but I would really appreciate it
>>33859464Because my ancestors believed in it for a long time. And satanists bullied me.
Devote yourself to her and do everything she says. Let her think for you and serve her
>>33858943saying nobe willing to walk away
>>33858943Have a backboneDon't be afraid to tell her to fuck off and give her the silent treatment when she's being extra uppityIf you today = n, tomorrow you must be n + 1
>>33858947>>33859852Yup.
>>33858943I think being a better boyfriend involves putting her first sometimes. Obviously, there's some shades of gray there, but you have to be able to get out of your own selfish mind.
ask your girlfriend how to be a better boyfriend for her! Every person is a little different and the best couples learn from each other and get to know how each individual likes to be treated. If your girlfriend says she likes physical affection give her lots of it, if she is more independent, give her space and then make the time you do spend with her the highest quality.Ultimately, its about connecting with her, not about connecting with "a girl." That's where you go from being just an idea of a boyfriend to the person she really loves and appreciates.
