Ask a girl if I can send her some documents related to a semi professional project. She says yes.I ask for her email.She looks at me like I'm an idiot.I realize i should just get her number. She is more than happy to tell me once I ask.Hit her up and she is actually putting in the steps to work with me. It feels nice, but I am not 100% sure if I am reading the room right. I assume she wants me to make a move but i am as always worried i might over step and have been misunderstanding her politeness.She wants me to make some sort of move right?
>>33859841>make work-related request>get work-related response>does this mean she likes me?!!!
Tread lightly. If she tries to get close to you all the time it is a sign she likes you, but if she is just kinda neutral and passing on by, not so much. I'll tell you the biggest sign if she likes you. Work at the opposite end of the workplace and see if she approaches you wanting to joke and have fun, if not, she's just a coworker. I got confused by this one time too with another woman. She essentially was all touchy with me, but I noticed she was even more and more touchy with everyone else compared to me.
>>33859841Does she laugh way too hard at things you say that weren't meant to be funny when you're together irl?Do her eyes constantly bounce between your eyes and your lips?Is she fidgety around you?Does her body language generally point toward you all the time when you're together?Was she very cold when you first met?If all are 'yes' it wouldn't hurt to pursue her after your professional obligations together are done
>>33859855It's not related to the work we do, idk extracurricular stuff.
>>33859855Smartest anon in this post so far.
>>33859869>>33859870Now I'm really worried I'm misreading things.
>>33860460then it's important to make sure you don't press one iota further. you are a hairs breath from being cancelled, your entire future gone in a single moment of impropriety. it's not worth it
>>33860473It's not that bad, I just don't know how in the clear I am.She agreed to go do something with me if our schedules ever line up. So less that I don't know and more I don't know to what degree.
>>33859841Tell her sorry about the whole email thing you were just worried the high res dick pic you were gonna send would be past the size limit for texting
>>33859841Does anyone under 40 still use email?
>>33859855100% this. Be careful anon, work and school are huge danger zones for dating women because they hold all the power there and getting through both are mandatory to not be homeless. Don't misread things, and even if you think you aren't, assume you are and act cautiously anyway. Women did this to themselves anyway.
>>33863426For sending documents yes and formal things that require a digital record. The email thing was just so I could sent over the project folder.
you cannot trust a woman's "hints" because they are notorious for baiting men they aren't interested in, in exchange for free shit. even a woman explicitly saying she is into you is probably lying and trying to get something out of you.
>>33864847I see your negativity but the one time I gave her some free shit she was shy about the small gift and offered to pay me. She really is a good egg.
>>33863426Yeah, I'm in my 20s. I hate using apps. It's either SMS or email, or fuck off
>>33860460I'd take everyone implying you're an idiot with a large grain of salt. In general, they're right - it's risky and could make things real awkward if you do misread the room or if she's just fishing for attention. But you are the one who's actually there, and if your instinct is right, the juice is often worth the squeeze. Unfortunately, there's no real way of knowing that without hanging your neck out there. So if you advance, advance slowly, carefully, and give yourself an escape plan.
>>33865691Tomorrow I'll know for sure. I have to swing by Regardless
why the fuck do women drop hints? it very consistently does not work.
bump for interest had a similar issue with coworker womanShe is super friendly, had some private talks, go together on company events I dropped that we should do something after work since she said she is bored.Result: rejected. A few weeks after she invited me to her IG. We texted, sent some reels. So I asked her again since she seemed to changed her mind, but rejected again and unfollowed me on Instagram. Woman are cowards.
>>33866872I was looking at OPs pic read "obvious hint" what the fuck is an "obvious hint"?Like isn't that sort of a contradiction in terms?Ladies need to learn that men would rather be rejected outright than have you be nice to us and be unclear.
It's so annoying. I can only hit fowl balls. Getting contact with the ball every time, doing fucking well but never actually getting a date.... What the hell even is this? I don't think she is she is stringing me along, just shy.I was mentioning the date, not asking her out just talking about next week... She goes tells me she isn't available that day but is off Wednesday...Girl I wasn't asking you out that time. But I'll keep Wednesday in mind.
>>33859841Welll, I flirt with everyone at my job. people say "that's just how he is" I've had sex w a few coworkers. Idk where you work but most likely youll be fine if u make a move.
>>33869332I don't work with this person. That was something people have been assuming, this is a semi professional project outside of work
>>33859841>Hey do you want to fuck?It's literally that easy.
>>33869412I don't want to fuck her, she doesn't want to fuck me.I want to make her dinner and wrap her in a blanket like a burrito while we watch a movie together. That's kind of a long question to just ask.
