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watching porn does me more harm than good but I can only stop for 2-3 days before doing it again, do you guys have advice to help me quit once and for all
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>>33859929
Step 1: Stop being a pussy
Step 2: Whenever you want to watch porn... don't.
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>>33859929
>use your imagination
>use settings/apps that limit/restrict web browsers and what websites you can browse
>get a fwb type girl that sends you nudes and flirts, and masturbate to her nudes (and don't get romantically attracted to her, just use her to cum)
>if you do watch porn, at least stick to simple nudes rather than sex videos or degenerate fetishes
this worked for me
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>>33859957
When you get urges, immediately go do something physical. Brain activities are bad in these situations, you will be too easily distracted. You must use your body. Go to the gym. Go for a run. Go do yoga. Go for a nature hike. Go to batting cage. Play fetch with your dog. Take a swim. Anything as long as it requires you to move your body. The more challenging the better.
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>>33859981
>replace porn with different porn
You are a fucking retard.
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>>33859929
find a hobby
lift weights
spend time with family

bruh literal infinite choices to do something other than watch porn
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>>33859957
Guys it really is this simple. Same applies for all addictions. Not necessarily easy, but simple. Stop looking for secret tricks and life hacks. Just utilize self control.
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>>33860005
woah, chill with the ableism little fella
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>>33860042
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>>33860005
it's actually more detrimental to fap to gooner compilations or triple penetration humilliation videos than to vanilla videos sent specifically to yourself and stuff like that
I can vouch for that with my life.
Just think about it for a second also.
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>>33860140
Sucking one dick is not as bad as sucking a million dicks but you are still sucking dick.
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>>33860161
I'll just do *some* drugs
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The effects on men that porn has is by far the least negative externality on society caused by porn. It's like being concerned about how microplastics are affecting the rocks in the grand canyon
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>>33860172
This is absolute delusional cope.
>Erectile dysfunction
>Loss of motivation
>Social isolation
>Depression
>Body image issues
>Delusional expectations for potential mates
>Inability to have normal relationships with women
>Falling birth rates
Yeah you're right, not that bad at all.
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>>33860005
>food is bad!!! how do i stop eating?!!! i can only go 3 days without eating before i get hungry again!
>"try eating healthier food"
>YOU ARE A FUCKING RETARD!!!!
kek lol
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>>33860217
7 of those problems are because your mom was a cunt and you use porn to anaesthetize the pain because you're too neurotic or geographically distant from niggers for fentanyl.
Further, as a female-selected species where women are hypergamous, 90%+ of men could drop dead and it would not impact fertility at all. Men's problems are a non-issue insofar as we are the shit mother nature flings at the wall in hopes a small %age sticks, even moreso considering that the state has usurped the average man in the social hierarchy. They are non-participants with porn or without it. You want less dopamine bouncing around peoples' heads because your e-daddy told you it's based.
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>>33860263
Blackpill incel confirmed. Opinions discarded.
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>>33859981
>>33860140
>>33860172
>>33860241
>>33860263
Imagine typing all these words just to be able to say you can't get pussy.
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>>33860300
Lol no.
Widespread porn use is a consequence of a dozen badly broken things in society, that have been broken for longer than most people who are alive have been alive. Fixing those dozen or so things will require a tremendous collective effort that would define history for the next millennium, it would be a brutal, violent process that goes far beyond everybody getting together to wash their penises and eat healthier and drink jocko's green juice. I also think it's perfectly possible that something like this will happen (ie not blackpilled), but it won't anytime soon. Things would have to be substantially more uncomfortable in the daily lives of the average person. We're a long ways from that, but the trajectory is unmistakably pointing in that direction, which is why you nofap queers give a damn in the first place.
Let me put it this way: there will be a point were suddenly the porn-industrial complex is no longer profitable, and suddenly everyone is abstaining from porn as a consequence. This will occur regardless of whatever impact your sanctimonious reddit crusade has in the end.
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>>33860326
>be op
>cry about being a porn addict that gets no sex
>project onto men that have sex and father children
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>>33859929
Breaking addictions feels harmful because you're wired to feel that way about reward pathways. Trust me, breaking a porn addiction is not actually harmful. You need to find ways to suppress it long enough for the reward pathway to wither, which is a lot easier if you train yourself to replace porn urges with a healthier habit.
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>>33860349
>nofap
I don't have to fap. I fuck. Doesn't seem like a hard choice.
Dude it's ok to be retarded I'm not judging you, but OP asked for advice and you have contributed nothing of value to the conversation. Respectfully, go fuck yourself.
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>>33860370
>My duder
>Respectfully, go heckin' fr*ck yourself
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>>33860355
If OP had 2 brain cells to rub together he would understand how >>33860217 is responsible for his lack of ability to have sex.
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>>33859929
have secks
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>>33860039
yeah except my willpower is zero
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>>33864563
Please refer to Step 1 >>33859957
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>>33864652
Please refer to >>33864563

The moment lust enters my head it's over
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>>33864665
Instructions are clear. Operator error.
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>>33859929
porn wasnt 200 years ago . its the product of the antichrist and his followers . you have better chance at throwing your tech out the window than to win against your sin . occupy your day to day and in about 40 days it will go away .
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>>33859929
honestly either cold turkey, watch more vanilla stuff until you get bored or get busy with things like university/work
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>>33859929
Cut off your cock and balls. It's the only way to be sure. Post proof vid on /gif/



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