Red Flags in Men. I'll start.>Addiction. Alcohol, drugs, vape, porn. >Cheating. History of cheating>Conversational narcissism right off the bat. If he cannot ask me engaging questions or just wants to hear himself talk>Domestic abuse. Abuses his mom or sisters. >Doesn't care about your well being. Doesn't want to walk home with you. Doesn't ask if you're okay. Doesn't want you to be okay. Doesn't try to make you feel safe.>Gaslighting. Accusing you of things you haven't done. Putting words into your mouth. >Narcissism. Never being wrong in an argument. Inability to be vulnerable. Lack of empathy.>Pushy. Always trying to push for sex or make things sexual. >Redpill nonsense. Alpha males and beta males. Bad boys and nice guys. >Two faced. Angry at one moment suddenly chill in another. Catching them lying. >Simping and pedestalizing. When they treat you like a 'goddess'. Later on it too often turns into jealousy, possessiveness, controlling or manipulative behaviors>brings up sex too soon. Starts making small sexual jokes, asking you what you like in bed>Being overly nice in the beginning, putting you on a pedastal (that can go very wrong), then randomly becomes abusive and horrific
>>33860736>t. 7 cats at 49
>>33860736how's the menopause treating you?
>>33860756None of these things are that ridiculous to not want in a partner. How's your hand treating you?
>>33860756>Uh oh, someone on the internet is saying that some men can have red flags, guess I better get personally offended for some reason
hook line and sinker
>>33860756why are men on this board genuinely stupid enough to believe there's a single woman over 40 posting here?like Israeli psyops, unlikely but always a chance, trans discords sure, there's always someone mad on the Internet... but genuinely believing a middle aged woman gives a single shit about posting here is just special Olympics tier retardation
>>33860765>>33860762t.
it shouldn't be this easy and yet it is
>>33860736Addiction: Gaming, porn, caffeine.Cheating: many times in every relationship.Conventional narcissist.Never abused my blood relatives.Will ask you about your well-being if I see something wrong with you.Master of gaslighting.Narcissist, second time.Will ask about sex in the first two minutes of conversation.Don't care about redpills.I'm not intentionally two-faced, but I have BPD.Nah, I will treat you like a talking onahole.Again, I talk about sex upfront, don't want any shady deals.Literally me. After I get sex, you won't hear any compliments from me.Did I pass the test?
>>33860776>unironically thinking women come here and give a shit what a bunch of incels have to say
>expired femoid said the incel worddamn way to go barbara we've never heard THAT one
>>33860776Cute but I had four kids at 40 all normal all homeschooled and not vaxxed
>>33860736Good list
>>33860736Honestly? Most of the things you said are up for interpretation. Most women like you are debi loids.>Domestic abuse. Abuses his mom or sisters.In todays society, this is subjective. What is "abusing"? Nowadays women will claim that anything is abuse. Did you left your clothes around the house? Abuse. You did not clean the dishes? Abuse. You said something a woman felt personally offended by it? Abuse.Really, what do you mean by "abuse"? If you mean physically hurting someone up, everyone agrees with that. But what about women? I've seen lots of women beating their boyfriends without any consequence, is this a two ways road or it only applies to men?>GaslightingReally? Most women gaslight men, and again, this is such a subjective thing.>Pushy. Always trying to push for sex or make things sexual.Would you say that if the guy is attractive? I doubt.>Redpill nonsense. Alpha males and beta males. Bad boys and nice guys.Women hate the truth.>Two faced. Angry at one moment suddenly chill in another.Are you serious or using this as an excuse as to disqualify future partners? ANYONE can be angry at times. And often times, women get angry even without reason, and blame their hormones.>brings up sex too soonDoesn't apply for Chad, does it?>Being overly nice in the beginningWait, I thought you said that bad boys an nice guys was a red flag.
>>33860736>Redpill nonsense. Alpha males and beta males. Bad boys and nice guys.>Being overly nice in the beginningThe incoherence, lmao
>>33860736why are all the chuds in this thread whining when these are genuinely just things men and women alike wouldnt want in a partner
>>33860881Cause it's subjective, anything can be "gaslight", anything can be "abuse". When women treat these things the way they treat, how do you expect me to take these words seriously?
>>33860912ok abuse means physical violence and gaslight means the fucking example they put in the original post here ill paste it so you can read it>Accusing you of things you haven't done. >Accusing you of things you haven't done. >Accusing you of things you haven't done. >Accusing you of things you haven't done. there you go chuddy
>>33860976>that she FEELS she hasn’t doneFtfy
>>33860744>>33860756Almost all of the list is perfectly sensible.The only questionable ones are "conversational narcissism" (some guys are just clueless) or "pedestalizing" (could mean lots of different things, and a guy simply liking a woman isn't a red flag).The quibble I have is that a "red flag" is properly something which isn't a dealbreaker in itself, but which is a warning sign that a dealbreaker could be present. So things like cheating, abusiveness, being a sex pest, etc. should just be dealbreakers outright, and not on the list.
>>33860976>Accusing you of things you haven't done.Again, this is subjective. A lot of women cheat, and when you accuse them of it, they lie. They lie so much it's their native tongue. They lie so much that even they believe in their lies. Completely subjective, most women don't even believe in objective truth or objective morality.
>>33860736You got me with >porn>inability to be vulnerable >jealousy do i pass foids?
>>Being overly nice in the beginning, putting you on a pedastal (that can go very wrong), then randomly becomes abusive and horrificThis is a good one, w e should be watchful for love bombing or a lot of compliment. It's just so manipulative and fake. (Yes, even when chad does this) Guys need to just chill.
>>33860736The only red flags there are the simping one and the one about being nice, the rest women enjoy them
>>33863718What if its authentic? I'm afraid of love bombing like saying or expressing too much, but I really want to because I feel that way
>>33863781Just say what you mean in the moment but don't over think it or over so it. Also actually listen to what we say, don't just drop a compliment like "you got this," or " you're so strong, " when we open up or vent.
>>33863828*I mean over do it.
>>33860736 MeAddictions: NoneCheating: Never been in a relationshipCon, Narcissism: I do not knowDom Abuse: NeverDoesn't Care: I careGaslighting: Never Narcissism: NeverPushy: Respectful as much as I canRedpill: Do not believe in that terminologyTwo face: I hate two facesSimping: Avoid doing thisBring up sex too soon: Avoid doing thisOverly nice: Maybe but out of anxiety
>>33860736I think misandry is at an all time high in America. I can't recall a period in history in which animosity towards men and masculinity itself has been this intense. I see it as a societal problem, not just a 1v1 conflict between a certain kind of man and a certain kind of woman.I am a little suspicious that there's no mention of money on the list.>no money>no job/shitty job>no car/shitty car>has money but stingy>can't cover expenses/splits costs>only cheap gifts or no gifts for xmas, bdayThese are all red flags too are they not? I'd think a guy with deep pockets who drinks and drugs would still be more viable than a sober guy who has no job and no car. Financial positioning trumps a lot of green flags and it's not even on the list. OP is a fag.
>>33860736Dont take this list too seriously guys this was written by a man
>>33864142When men post I listen
Swearing too much
>>33860736I realize this is probably a bait thread. But, all of those seem pretty reasonable to me. Thing is though, the people that tout this sort of laundry list of basically the perfect mentally sound person likely don't embody all of these things.
>>33860736No major psychic disorders on the list? Good.
>>33860736I aced everything
