Please give me some advice without judging me. I (23F) recently am talking to a guy (also 23).I sent him nudes and helped him jerk off and basically sextinged each other. But he admitted today that he’s not over his ex. This guy i sacrificed literally my nights for him, i started to catch feelings and all but he didnt even take me serious. I even sent fucking nudes to him. I’m si heartbroken i feel like i’m gonna burst crying any moment. Please help me what should i do. I feel like shit.
The worst part is he would ignore me everytime after he finished cumming. So we wouldnt talk after that. Its like he uses me to release his balls. I hate this so much. I just want to be loved
>>33860857yeah its weird. it shows some serious mental issues. maybe try to be less of a whore and youll feel less a little less worthless lmao.
>>33860870You wouldn’t judge me? Why would you make me feel like shit again? I thought he liked me too but i got fooled
>>33860877if a guy actually likes you as a person you wont need to send him nudes lmao. the second best time to stop being a whore is right now, just learn from your mistakes and move on.
>>33860857he doesnt reciprocate your feelings and you've got to move on
>>33860857This guy is a scumbag for having you do these things when he isn't over his ex.You need to have him delete the nudes and stop talking to himHe doesn't care about you, you just do porn for him.
>>33860857do zoomers do anything in person or is it all remote?
>>33860890But i liked him so much and he would only talk to me when he was horny honestly. I dont know how to recover from this but i will try. I deserve better. But will a man love me really? I feel like all of them want the same. I feel so terrible
>>33860911He lives in the UK (i’m Dutch) and we would meer but today i learned hes not ocer his ex while he basically jerked off me
Why would anyone by the cow if the milk is free? LOOL
>>33860857Girls are so dumb.You should ask your father for advice before doing something with a guy.
>>33860987I regret it, i just wanted to be loved. Is that too much to ask for?
>>33860987>You should ask your father for advice before doing something with a guy.No, how could you? This is sexist! Women should do anything with their bodies.>>33861001You go girl! Send your nudes to whoever you want, fuck every random guy you desire. They will surely love you and compete to marry the community whore. (Contain irony)
>>33861032That’s not nice, i literally wanted to marry him, dont be an asshole
>>33861001>Is that too much to ask for?Yes. Men do not care and if you let them they will treat you like meat. A man's heart is not in his cock and his love for you will leave as quickly as his ejaculate if that is all you try to appease.If you are worth anything why would you give yourself away for free? Is your love not worth anything, is your existence meaningless? It is good to have regret; shows you recognize your mistake.>>33861064And what does he want? His ex. Your thoughts are not based on reality.
>>33861064>That’s not nice, i literally wanted to marry him, dont be an assholeLook. What I did was an attempt to explain something it will probably never go into your head. That's why my disdain. I'm not really trying to offend you. I am mocking your behavior and of most women. You think you are getting married with this kind of behavior? Only with low quality men, and men with no backbone. Because if you send naked photos to him, what can guarantee that others didn't receive these photos as well? That's how our mind works.
>>33860857Yeah. As a guy we should have to earn that through a lot of work.
>>33861084You’re right, but i thought maybe if i did what he wanted, he would be more interested in me. And he was, he wanted more, but after he finished he left me on read. It’s not fair.
>>33861087Oh yeah you’re right.. i’m gonna delete it all now
>>33861097>It’s not fair.It is as fair as it gets.>>33860932Why would anyone pay for something free?
>>33861095What do you mean? Through a lot of work? What work?
>>33860857I won't read is this normal threads invariably posted by formulaic, autistic, subhuman morons.
>>33861104How is that fair? It’s not fair to me. He’s using me to release his balls while i literally liked him.
>>33861107If the guy hasn't put in time and work why send him nudes? Are you easy? Guys like to earn that stuff, it's also much much better for you.
>>33861097>You’re right, but i thought maybe if i did what he wanted, he would be more interested in me.noMen should never be happy, there goals should be impossible. Man does not appreciate what he has until it is gone.
>>33861122>How is that fair? It’s not fair to me. He’s using me to release his balls while i literally liked him.How is that not fair? You offered to empty his balls FOR FREE.After he accepted, and had his balls emptied, you said it WAS NOT FREE.How is that fair?
>>33861122I will ask again, because I really wanted you to understand this. Why would anyone pay for something free?>Men should never be happy, there goals should be impossible. Man does not appreciate what he has until it is gone.Lies. I am grateful every single day of my life. I thank God for my health, for the food that is on my plate, the roof I have, the clothes I can wear. Not everyone is ungrateful. You lack logic. The whole point is: Why would someone pay for something free. Why would anyone pay for something they take for granted?I don't take my health, my food, my clothes, my roof for granted. Cause I know how hard these things are to come by.
>>33861122You chose someone who didn't care aboit you at all and you got no commitment.
>>33861134 >>33861145That’s a very dumb comparison.. he’s literally using me and y’all say stuff like that, as if its my fault
>>33860857>I (23F) recently am talking to a guy (also 23)>same age relationshipi'm pretty sure you should be giving us advice
>>33861168Wdym? Giving advice for what?
You're a slut lmao just wait until those nudes are all over 4chan by tomorrow.
>>33861168Kek. The most normal person here is still fucked up.
>>33861176I’m not a slut you dont even know me, and i deleted it anyway
>>33861183You might not be a slut but you did a slutty thing. Don't do it again. Ask him to delete it and not to think of you that way. Just explain you got excited.We all get excited sometimes it ok.
>>33860857If you want to act like a whore, expect to be treated like a whore. Men will fuck you but they'll treat you like a disposable cum dumpster because that's exactly what you are. As a woman you have a million different options. Wait for a good man who's willing to wait for you.
You made a mistake is all. You live and you learn. I had a similar situation when I was younger.
>>33861168>>33861179You don't take dating advice from women because they'll give you the socially acceptable answers that absolutely do not even turn them on>Be a nice guy>Buy her flowers>Be emotionally availablewhen they really respond to>Don't be a people pleaser>Tell her no and be willing to disagree >Don't put her on a pedestal>Be your own man with your own goals and aspirations.>Don't take her bullshit
>>33861398A lot of women also flat out lie about caring about looks in a man.
>>33861407Eh, kinda. Do looks matter? Yes. But women also look at more than just looks. This is how fat dudes, short dudes, or any other unusual looking dude can still get women. Whereas with men...we usually won't even consider a chick unless we find her sexually attractive in some way.
>>33861064Bro, you texted him and sent nudes, that is not the basis of a marriage relationship. You have to actually have a non-sexual connection with someone
>>33861469Yeah true, but every guy that tries to speak to me speaks either or sex or other sexual stuff. I dont know what i’m doing wrong
>>33861494How else are men supposed to indicate sexual interest? If we don't, we'll be treated like a friend and put ourselves in the friend zone. What are examples of what they say to you?
>>33861509One time there was this guy that told me my voice alone was turning him on, does that sound normal to you?
>>33860926Sister don't mix with British mongrels, stay with us (I live in NL too)
>>33861526Is this IRL or on the internet or something? And was it out of the blue? Because I can make an argument for if there was some flirting and some back and forth banter for a while, that might be appropriate. But out of the blue? Eh, not really
>>33861538Hahaha you’re right, biggest mistake ever made
>>33861541It was IRL. We were kinda flirting it was just someone from my cousins friend group. But even if we were flirting, you are not supposed to say stuff like that right? Its inappropriate behaviour
>>33861564>It's inappropriate behaviorIt depends on if you liked it or not. A girl will think being catcalled by an ugly guy is harassment. But if a guy she finds hot does it, all of a sudden she doesn't seem to care. Not gonna lie, you sound like a dude larping as a woman.
>>33861555:) You'll be alright, fuck that guy. They don't understand what it means to be normal and communicate like a human being. They are cynical and stupid while we are straightforward and honest. What are you doing up at nearly 4am hahaFor me I'm procrastinating school work
>>33861570I’m so tired of this. Please go outside. What would i gain from ‘larping as a dude’? Here a screen if you dont believe me
>>33861586This is a sfw board. Go be a whore in another board
>>33861586Woow, there's no way a dude could possibly get nudes online and pretend to be a girl!!! /sThe problem is you're acting weird about a man being interested in you, but it sounds like a man's idea of how the woman would feel about it.>Saying my voice turns him on is inappropriate behaviorYet at the same tim>I totally sent him a fuckton of nudesThe fuck are you on? These kinds of mental gymnastics only make sense if formulated by a man projecting how he thinks a woman would respond. The whole "girls are made of sugar and spice" trope.
>>33861673I’m sorry but i didnt understand anything you said, could you reformulate it again please
>>33861586You got curved by a guy with THIS as his avatar? You whored yourself out knowing this anglo was stroking it to your bare tits and stared at THIS the whole time?
>>33861693No, because you either can't read or are an AI bot.
>>33861693I’m gonna sleep now so i’ll read it later
>>33861696No, i just dont understand what you mean by that genuinely
>>33861586nice pussy, I can't lie
>>33861586Timestamp with another photo of your tits. Make sure your nipples are showing so I can cross reference. Then I will give you sincere advice.
>>33861694Hahah yeah it’s stupid i know, dont judge me
>>33861709What I'm saying is I think you are a man pretending to be a woman because everything you present sounds like a mans idea of how a woman would feel about everything you're discussing. I talk to women. I have female friends. They...do not sound like this. They don't come at it from the perspectives that you do. TL;DR you don't talk to women. You are not a woman.
>>33861727I mean I sexted with a gorgeous black goddess once while staring at a png of Sora from Kingdom Hearts the entire time so I'm no better
>>33861736Sure. You sound retarded af. You don’t even know me.
>>33861743>You sound retarded afYou don't know *me* dumbass. Idiot mad at my logic then uses the same exact train of thought to try and discredit. Even a woman wouldn't be this dumb.
>>33861747You’re so obsessed its embarrassing. Get a life weirdo.
>>33861750>cries because "she" sent some nudes>asks 4chan for helpYeah....ok.
>>33861756What? I can’t ask for help now? Like i said get a life.
>>33861756>>33861750>>33861772OH, and never mind that "she" shared the nudes on the thread without a second thought even though she was just crying over them?>>33861727>Hahah yeah it’s stupid i know, dont judge meGod this is so dumb. I'm out, lol. It was a nice larp. You had us going for a bit, faggot. Re-posting your "nudes" so you can't delete them. Peace out.
>>33861793Only a nipple timestamp comparison can save OP's credibility now
>>33861793You’re being so rude and cruel for nothing. Please improve yourself, be better. Thanks
>>33861804Nah, we're not falling for the "high road" bullshit. Nipple timestamp or GTFO
>>33861808This is one of the ways to lure me out and i’m not falling for it. Just dont send messages if you dont have proper to swy, i dont have time for this
>>33861825>Asks for advice>called out on obvious bullshit>Suddenly doesn't have time for this "bullshit"Nice concession. Goodbye, faggot.
>>33861827You’re a faggot. You can’t hurt me, bye.
>>33861825Nobody is luring you out if you posted "your" own nudes on the thread lmao. Nobody even asked for that. You did it yourself. Now a timestamp is asking too much?
>>33861832Fake and gay.
>>33861837You’re so obsessed its embarrassing, get a life. Maybe go outside and dont bedrot 24/7.
>>33861843Maybe don't send nudes to a dude then cry like a bitch, lol.
>>33861834Timestamp of what?
>>33861825>here's my fully uncensored tits and pussy, trust me!>what? another photo of my tits? that's too much...c'mon dude.
>>33861852Why can’t you be nice for once? What did i do to you
>>33861857What?
>>33861868post your tits with a timestamp
>>33861868They're asking for you to write the date and time on a piece of paper with a picture as well as something like "hi /adv/" or whatever for authenticity.
Its just nudes. Not the end of the world. You'll learn nothing without making mistakes and the pathetic permanently anxious types can rot on their asses. That goes for everyone. Accept your actions and stop being ruled by inaction.>>33861032Drama queen.
>>33861890>>33861964I think that made her leave
>>33860857Yes. Sending nudes in general is pretty weird. Only one of my exes ever sent them to me, and she was a bit of a freak.
>>33862150>I think that made her leaveIt was never a girl to begin with, lol. It was a dude larping as a girl. Her arguments and perspective made no sense and she crashed out when I called her on it
>>33862156Hahaha please rage a little more. It’s funny assuming. Literally no one but you is ‘offended’ or something? Weird af
>>33860857>>33860932I hate when people say "girls are whores' meanwhile guys are sending dic pics without even saying "hi"Its alright OP if you loved him, some people are just assholes, he wasnt Worth doing it.Just delete the nudes you send to him. Find someone better that wont treat you like that
>>33862338Guys who send dick pics are also hoes.
>>33861424>But women also look at more than just looksLooking at "more than just looks" just means they need looks in a man, on top of a bunch of other things.>This is (thing I made up in my head that is becoming increasingly rarer and rarer) occursOK.>Whereas with men...we usually won't even consider a chick unless we find her sexually attractive in some wayThe number of normal looking or even chad-looking dudes I see nowadays with fat or ugly girls has skyrocketed since about 10 years ago. Men will fuck anything that moves, and stay with that thing if she's giving him regular food and sex, which is literally all men need.
>>33862332Textbook projection. This faggot is just mad that anon called his bullshit.
>>33862464There is an epidemic of faggots who can't read or comprehend basic english.>The number of normal looking or even chad-looking dudes I see nowadays with fat or ugly girls has skyrocketed since about 10 years ago.And? They find them attractive in some way. You're not countering my point at all.>Looking at "more than just looks" just means they need looks in a man, on top of a bunch of other things.I literally just said >This is how fat dudes, short dudes, or any other unusual looking dude can still get womenClearly looks isn't the only or even most important thing. The American school system has failed us.
>>33862509>Clearly looks isn't the only or even most important thingI know what you meant, retard, and it's simply not true. The fact of the matter is women need looks in a man AND a bunch of other things. You'd know this if you left the basement some time.
>>33862564Lol this dude thinks he comprehends but still doesn't get it. My previous reply already debunks your bullshit but I'm done. This is enough internet for the day. Peace, faggot.
>>33861586Oh shit, I know this Britfag with that pfp. Hate to tell you this OP, but he's not only a scumbag, but also a nonce.
>>33862583do you think this might be him doing revenge porn posing as the chick?
>>33862693Wouldn't be surprised. Guy is a massive turd.
can you help me cum instead
Hey dutch lady you want to come to USA?
>>33860914>feel like all of them want the same. I feel so terribleIf you have standards and don't give out nudes/sex so easily, you can filter out the men who are actually in it for you instead of just the sex.
>>33861166You allowed yourself to be used. Don't give away sex so freely.
>>33860857Dont send nudes at all if you can help it.. thats a lot of power youre handing to someone who isnt permanent in your life and may one day be a bitter enemy.
>>33862835*nudes
>>33860877The moment a girl sends me nudes I know 2 things.1) I can fuck her.2) I will not be dating her.Dont do that until a relationship is established, and even then its a horrible idea cause God forbid you break up (extremely likely) and now a maniac is running around with naked pictures of you.
>>33862850Brief story:I reconnected with a girl I knew during high school that I had a crush on a few years back. We lived about three hours away from each other so mainly just texted. One day, the convo suddenly got very sensual, and she sent me nudes out of basically nowhere. We kept talking daily after that and would randomly slip back into it. I can distinctly remember each time it happened (6 times in the span of two years) as if I was actually fucking her. I decided that I liked it enough and that we had good enough chemistry that I took her on an actual date. It was fine, we had fun, and she got drunk and couldn’t stop laughing, which I found cute. At the end of the night, I dropped her off, but called her back to the car. She came running and we kissed. Felt nice, but didn’t really feel anything romantically.About a week later, she told me “honestly I just kissed you cause you paid for dinner.” We sexted several times after that to the same degree of passion, but I had to stop when I got a girlfriend. We’re both lucky the other person isn’t a scornful maniac because we’ve each got about 100+ naked pictures of each other at this point.
>>33862880Hey I aint innocent either, my dick and worse exists on several phones still. But it really is something people dont think about. Women especially cause dudes be on 4chan making win threads.. you dont actually know what someone will do with something so private if they either hate you (a very common end to sexual relationships..) or worse, think they wont get caught..
>>33862583Wait you actually know him? Really?
>>33860857>without judging meit's 4chan
>>33860914But he obviously didn't like you so much because he refused to talk to you other than to jerk off which you knew immediatelyYou answered your own questionThis is not a men problem this is a you problem
>>33860857uh yeah if you make porn you are a whore and no one will respect you. are you retarded?
>>33860857When young, I met a bunch of horny, kinky women who'd go to great lengths to please. I did not appreciate it. Why? Due to lack of experience I thought ALL women were like that. So I thought I could look for a smarter, more "respectable" woman. Turns out only very few women are like this. Most women are pretty frigid. Answer: he doesn't appreciate what you offer, because he thinks it's normal. Offer yourself to a more experienced man, who can appreciate you being that way.
>>33860857if a woman sends me nudes too quick, I immediately put her in the 'for fun only' basket.I don't relate with hoes.
>>33863416>>33863357>>33863336Y’all saying this is all my fault? How can you victim blame me
>>33863500if you act like a dumb whore you will get treated like one, no one will view you as a serious relationship and just use you for sexual gratification since that's what you present yourself for.
>>33863500>Y’all saying this is all my fault? How can you victim blame meYou've got to be a trollDo not engage in this thread guys, it's clearly a troll. It's probably a 40 year old fatass
>>33863500>act like whore>surprised when men get the ick:o
