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I'm still dumbfounded by my breakup. I've spent the last month autistically analyzimg everything that happened in the last weeks and I'm so fucking confused.
I have her email, and though she has likely blocked me, I can just make new accounts. But she doesn't answer.
Is there a way I could convince her to have a call with me? I still need closure. It still haunts me.
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>>33861023
You have closure, it’s over. Move on.
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>>33861023
You could have an Insecure type situation where you dated her a long time ago and then she breaks up with her bf and she comes back to you
But if she JUST broke up with you and hasn't called back it's probably over for now
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She just found someone better dude. Move on, that's life. Women will jump to another guy if he is better, the sooner you get used to it the better.
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>>33861023
Stop being a retard and move on. Find someone better next time.
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>>33861023
Not everything needs a response. She's not doing well because of where she's at right now. Everyday is worse than the last
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>>33861794
She's definitely doing far better than me. I doubt she even thinks about me at all any more. I'm the one coping and hurting here. I'm the only one that keeps trying to reach out.
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>>33861041
How would I ever move on like that? I could never trust a woman again, knowing that at any fucking moment she could just dump me, the day after saying she loves me.
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>>33861838
I thought that at one point. And then I saw she wrote how much it hurts everyday thinking about me and that she was struggling to reach out and didn't know why.
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>>33861023
>>33861847
i feel ya op. my fiancé dumped me at the beginning of the year. I knew she was emotionally cheating on me but I didn't know the extent of it. It's been almost a year later and I still haven't recovered. If anything it's gotten worse as she's moved on and acts like we were never together. Meanwhile I have nightmares about once a week. I put everything I had into the relationship and she just throws it away like it's nothing. Zero loyalty.

I never believed the whole "hypergamy" redpill shit until experiencing it firsthand. But where they get it wrong is that it's not always because of money. I make probably triple what her new bf does. Women are guided by their emotions.

tl;dr women are emotional creatures but will rarely leave a relationship without having a backup plan. I guarantee she doesn't think about you at all. I'm sorry anon.
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>>33861892
Lol shut the fuck up. If that was the case, she would have told me already. But she basically just told me to fuck off and never contact her again.
>>33861910
So... what now? Just never have a relationship again? I certainly won't be able to see women the same way again.
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if she wanted to be in your life then she wouldn't have left, like many in this thread have said, move on
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>>33861687
>>33862211
>>33861031
I can't move on without answers. My mind doesn't let me.
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>>33861892
It's what she told me. She said that online about me and I didn't see the post until much later
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>>33862298
Doesn't apply to my case and she has no social media accounts that I could stalk.
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>>33862359
I didn't say to stalk. Where I saw her on post was on archive



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