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>gf frequently posts things like pic related in her Instagram stories
>usually vaguely follow what our relationship is like (more than not, maybe)

What does she mean by this
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>>33861616
She not for you, King.
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>>33861652
Why not?
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>>33861616
>usually vaguely follow what our relationship is like
So what’s the problem?
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>>33861662
She's playing the waiting game, it seems. She doesn't see you as something to want anymore, if she's doing what you say she's doing. She has no respect for you, you're not what she wants.
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>>33861670
He means she picks out things about him that she seems to have a problem with and says she wants the opposite.
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>>33861706
He said that she posts things like pic and it follows what their relationship is like. So what’s the problem?
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she is not communicating effectively with you. You are not really either. You should ask her if these mean anything and if she is unhappy.
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>>33861729
He means that she posts what he acts like and says she wants the opposite.
>>33861662
I'll save you if you don't kill your gf or anybody else, bro.
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>>33861670
>>33861697
>>33861763
No, I am very anxious and frankly clingy, hence my worry about this, so that’s what I mean when I say it “follows our relationship.” Just find it strange she’s posting this publicly to no one in particular
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>>33861786
Oh, so then the Femanon was right to say "What's the problem?"
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>>33861797
Exactly
>say op is hairy guy
>gf posts that that loves snuggling with a bear rug
Or something.
>Just find it strange she’s posting this publicly to no one in particular
My man, girls like to brag too.
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>>33861797
>>33861830
Thanks anons, I’m just a faggot but I’m glad to hear it’s nothing bad
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>>33861900
I would like to apologize for the behavior of my passion.
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>>33861900
>it’s nothing bad
It’s not just “nothing bad”, it’s fucking awesome.
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>>33861908
>>33861922
Counterpoint: she doesn’t post me in her stories. I’m obviously there in her posts, like my arm or across the table, but not my face. When I asked her why she said
>we haven’t been together that long (somewhat fair, it’s been 6 months)
>I’m a private person and haven’t dated in a while so don’t know how to handle that
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>>33863008
she's cheating, 100%
t.dated a girl like that for 4 years

oh and her statuses are about another guy
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>>33863079
She wouldn’t post you for 4 years? Or could you elaborate? I don’t think she’s cheating, as it would require pretty elaborate subterfuge, beyond just saying “I’m busy.” Like putting her work clothes on camera but actually going somewhere else
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>>33863287
yes, for 4 years she had excuses. Don't buy into her bullshit, women cheat and lie as easy as they breathe.
Mine was at 'work' too
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>>33863008
I'm a woman that doesn't do social media but I find that weird of her. 6 months is half a year of your life and we only live like 75-85 years at most. How long until she'll actually be public with you, then?
I'll tell you this as a woman, we only move that slow if we might want something better. I had an exbf I wouldn't introduce to my senpai because he made me unsure and I was right. Meanwhile my bf of 1.5 years met my family within a few months and was immediately my boo publicly. Tread carefully and good luck
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>>33863301
How did you find out?
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>>33863318
I found that strange too. I only started social media because of her (Instagram was just most convenient for calling) and I felt happy to post her from day 1. However, this is complicated by the fact that we’re long distance. My “confronting” her happened 4 months into our relationship when we WERE in person together. Now we’re apart so she technically couldn’t post me unless it were old pictures
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>>33863332
>long distance
forget it and move on, man
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>>33863880
Just temporary until April, with a visit in January
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>>33863949
I'm telling you bro, if you make it 'til April, it will bear bad news
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>>33863969
Why?
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>>33861616
>What does she mean by this
Likely nothing. I re-post a ton of memes about wanting to become a chinese uncle and smoke long cigarettes in my flip-flops but I don't actually do it because the internet means nothing and re-posting takes one finger and like 3 seconds. I hardly even remember the shit I like or save or whatever. Its possible you're reading too deeply into it.



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