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do most sex-having men force sex at some point in their lives, mainly if its with a girl they never had sex with before? i got my head forced on this guys dick while we were both drunk in his room and he slapped me in the face but i have a hard time thinking badly of him because i cant imagine any other man who has had casual sex many times not having done similar things.
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Yes. I always pressure women into sex when they have their last minute jitters, because fuck that shit you had the whole night to think about it and leave
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>>33864022
No, most men don’t do things like this.
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>>33864032
bye. leaving now.
that is what you want, right?
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>>33864034
They truly do
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>>33864022
No sane man ever forces sex. Ever.
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I am 40 year old virgin, and I'm going to this Halloween event on Saturday. I will be forcing having sex with with a slut bitch vampire. I will be dressed up as a pastor. I even bought a crucifix that I will insert in her anus if she's being too naughty.
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>>33864022
thats because u were a drunk whore at the time lol and u were just a 1 night stand
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>>33864022
I've never forced somebody's face onto my cock unless she made it clear she wanted to suck it. Opening the door with force can be charged as rape or sexual assault and isn't wise if a person enjoys their freedom.
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>>33864199
Most of us don’t, honest to god. It’s likely you just had bad enough luck to get involved with multiple shitty men.
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>i have a hard time thinking badly of him because i cant imagine any other man who has had casual sex many times not having done similar things.
Spitting on the homeless wouldn't be OK just because most everyone does it.

Do you really want a man so badly that you'd rather be violated, battered and disrespected than single? If it's all men then you don't fuck any man. I don't know if it's all men but I'm out the moment I'm disrespected and it's a 100% ratio so far because women refuse to hold them accountable and make them learn.
Men will always choose pussy over integrity because of their biology so they'll advise you to do the same, but firstly, you will never be a slave to dick the way men's lives revolve around pussy, and secondly, you risk more than men who merely fake their lives and personalities and kiss ass to get women.
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>>33864022
>i cant imagine any other man who has had casual sex many times not having done similar things.
Delusional
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>>33864022
No. Ive never forced anyone. That is not common or ok.
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>>33868727
it is common but not ok.
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>>33864022
He slapped you to punish you and intimidate you, because he got off on the feeling of forcing you and hurting you. Being drunk and fooling around is not an excuse to bring violence or intimidation into the bedroom. Guys that do so enjoy sadism or enjoy the rush of assaulting others. Usually to cope with something they dislike about themselves. Happy well-adjusted men don’t need to resort to shit like that.
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No, my boyfriend has never slapped me.
I think many men will pressure their gf's into sex or sulk if she's not in the mood, but unwarranted violence is abnormal. Leave this man and do not accept it again. I'm sorry you've been traumatized enough to think it's normal and expected.
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If alpha males get rapey, women like it and will not only fail to report it, but will actively conceal it. If losers ever look at a woman wrong they will get accused of rape. So getting accused of rape doesn't actually have anything to do with a man's behavior, it's only got to do with his status. Search your rationalizations, femoid, you know it to be true.
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Women... Dude literally slapped you in the face and made you suck his dick. I bet that if you did not comply he would rape your throat anyway. But somehow you have a good image of him. Life sucks, this world makes no sense. While good people suffer a fucking rapist has his cock sucked.
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>>33869552
This right here... And it sucks, I hate this world, really.
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>>33869561
Yeah, same. All that OP is really doing is trying to get a read on this guy's social status so she can decide if it was rape. He was probably on the line, or the social situation made reading his status difficult.
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>>33869552
Traumatic stress can lead to a person denying the reality of the trauma done to them. Children accept the beatings given to them from a parent, and will cling to the parent that beats them, in an attempt to limit or lessen the severity of the trauma. Women and men who have suffered domestic violence will “accept” the abuse — it is much easier to hide what is happening to you than to accept it, let alone expose it to others. Your desperation will drive others away like a disease.
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>>33869590
I was raped and beaten for long stretches of my childhood; don't hit me with midwit psychobabble rationalizations that you don't know anything about. This shit with cunts is something entirely different. Evolution has programmed them to respond sexually to aggression and high social status.
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>>33869577
>>33869561
>>33869552
>>33869554

Social status protects abusers because a woman’s accusation against a man’s reputation means nothing. Have any of you read “The Scarlet Letter” by Nathaniel Hawthorne. Have you read a single book this year?
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>>33869608
I've read dozens of books this year, but not trash fiction written for oversocialized whores. Actual books. For example, Epilepsy in Babylonia, three translations of The Secret History of the Mongols, Ancient Etymologies in Ovid's Metamorphoses, History of the Lombards, Pseudo-Calisthenes, Hellenistic and Roman Sparta, etc etc. Die, pseud.
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>>33869603
Sorry to hear that anon. I am speaking from personal experiences also, I was molested and beaten repeatedly as a kid so. Where’s your rebuttal stand then. If women are so hardwired to love and accept and desire being beaten and forced, why do any women cry from it. Why do they fight and struggle and reject it. Why do any women speak out or talk at all. How many women have you slapped or beaten or forced who now sit obediently at your feet anon.
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>>33864022
No, it is not normal at all. At least not most places. There was some survey and only in Papau New Guinea was it at all common for a man to force a woman into sex
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>>33869630
A litany of historical and cultural tomes that all details bygone ages and dead cultures. How relevant to our discussion anon. What year did “The Scarlet Letter” get published anon. Do you know? Can you google that real quick.
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>>33869632
>why do any women cry from it. Why do they fight and struggle and reject it. Why do any women speak out or talk at all
Victimhood is incentivized, so women can essentially get paid twice. First, they get the sex they crave, then they get attention, a blank check to act however they want, and often payouts. It's a win-win-win-win for them.

I don't beat women, I ghost them.

>>33869650
Nonfiction academic works are infinitely more valuable than the fictional trash you are pushing. You know this on some level. Couldn't care less when that trash was written.
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>>33869689
>victimhood is incentivized
So what about your victimhood then? Surely you’re the victim in this too, failing to get the attention you crave from the right kind of woman.

>You know this on some level.
Anon, I believe that was almost a compliment.

Sigh. You’re trapped in your stubborn mindset and refuse to imagine anything that challenges it. Your current reads seem interesting at least, so thank you for that. I completely disagree with you on the substance and importance of fiction. None of this is the point of the thread that we’re in. Fun while it lasted anon. Enjoy your night.
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>>33869737
Under cultural marxism, men cannot be victims. Some fiction has value, sure, but it's absurd to condescend to someone that reads real books because you read a book whose point is:
>hundreds of hears ago there were minor social consequences for adultery
>waaaahhh waaahhhh waaahhh now all women are victims forever
It's almost as bad as if the book you were pushing was Twilight.
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>>33869784
So you have read it? In a different context, this discussion would be fun instead of tiring. Hope you sleep well anon. Have a good night. I’m going to bed.
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>>33864022
You should not be such a skanky drunk slut and dicks won't get shoved in your mouth and bonus, your face won't get slapped either! An extra bonus is that we won't have to hear you whine about it on 4chan. Don't be such a whore.
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>>33869831
Haven't read it, but I once fantasized about killing myself when a feminist hag made me watch it in a public indoctrination center over 20 years ago. Good night.
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>>33864022
No, but you're a whore, hence you end up getting treated like one by the bottom-of-the-barrel degenerates you shack up with.
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>>33869847
translated:
>I watched the film version one day in english class and my cognitive skills never developed enough to critically examine or understand the message of the story. The repeated childhood trauma I’ve endured has stunted me in bitterness and hatred when I see others who are victimized as I was, but they are given the attention and salvation that I never got.

Sorry you’re damaged goods anon. You should corner a drunk young girl and slap her around some, you’ll feel better about yourself then. Maybe.
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>>33869844
>>33869945
>if he hits you it’s your fault
wow. stellar takes guys. never heard that before.
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>he slapped me in the face
Girl, run and block him on everything!
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>>33869994
That's not a bad idea, I might do that. And pretty good analysis, except that adulteresses are not victims of the crime they commit. They are victimizers, and no mental gymnastics are required to justify contempt for them.
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>>33864022
That's called rape and the vast majority of men are not about that. Contrary to popular belief it isn't about the sex itself, it's the thrill of getting a woman to WANT to have sex with you. Sex is honestly more about ego than the physical sensation, at least with casual sex.
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>>33864022
No.
Stop putting yourself in shitty situations with bad men.
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>>33870015
I didn't say it was OP's fault. I literally called the guy a bottom-of-the-barrel degenerate. How much more disparaging can I get?
My point is that she still chose to shack up with him, and SHE is the one bending over backwards to excuse and accommodate his behavior. Just as he's responsible for his own actions, she's responsible for hers. She chose to get into drunken hookups with subhumans, and the results are just as wrong as they are predictable.
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>>33864032
FPBP
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I definitely cannot relate at all to what you described OP. In fact I need consent to even enjoy it.
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>>33869608
>Social status protects abusers because a woman’s accusation against a man’s reputation means nothing
Dozens of fake or questionable rape accusations over the last couple decades say otherwise
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>>33869608
this nigga actually reads books in 2025 lmaoooooo



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