>met 45 year old japanese lady on tinder>we get along really well>initially doesnt have a photo, im interested anyway>she reveals her face, cute, solid 7-8>super sweet, but she has a kid, and an abusive disabled husband>idc>masturbate together>agree to fly out there and meet her and her son>fuck for two days straight >lose my virginity to Japanese mommy 24 years older than me >hasnt sex in over a decade>we both want to marry and have kids one day>afraid i will leave her if she cant have a baby, but im committed to her no matter what happens>obvious problems are the husband she cant divorce and her ageshe hasnt hit menopause yet so its not impossible but i know its risky of both miscarriage or disabled child. I dont care, i want to give her a baby. I want to conceive naturally, but i know its unlikely to even stick, let alone be healthy. willing to consider ivf. I've made up my mind about this even though i still have another year of school before i could work and provide, i cant fluently speak japanese, i dont have a lot of money right now, my parents arent exactly supportive, and she is still married. she is waiting for him to die but who knows when that will happen.>t. stroke 5 years ago, left side is paralyzed, in wheelchairbut they never loved each other or had anything meaningful. Im taking this at face value so it could all be a lie, but i dont care. Id rather be blissfully ignorant and love her. I just want to know if anyone has had even a slightly similar experience. I love her, want to be together as long as possible, and am willing to accept all her flaws.Its not ideal, i wish it were different, but i cant change my feelings for her.
>>33864264you shouldn't marry and impregnate the first woman you manage to bang.EVEN MORE TRUE IF SHE's FUCKING 45have fun but don't commit.
>>33864264>single mumthis aint it chief
If you love her, then follow your heart and deal with whatever consequences follow. Keep in mind, though:- Impregnation is pretty much a non-option. I know you want to give her a cute baby but her age and situation will make such a thing troublesome, and it would be better to spare yourself and her the grief.- If you show up and the husband becomes aware of the affair, your ass is going to be fucking grass if he decides to divorce and sue her for emotional damages. More to the point, court cases like that would absolutely tank her social reputation, and would affect her kid as well. Tread carefully.
>>33864264Just inseminate her and figure the rest out later
>>33864264>my parents arent exactly supportive,why does that matter? Do you want you parents to pay for everything to be with her? You both are blinded by love. She's obviously in a shitty situation and would love some fresh air and dick and you are inexperienced. Enjoy what it is, but don't do stuff that you wouldn't do if you weren't in love. As in try to think about it if you wouldn't love her that much.
>>33864264Honestly anon, Japanese women are fickle, she might decide to ghost you so don't put all your eggs in one basket and she has a kid already why not just be happy being a stepfather?
>>33864645I seem to get along with her son well, and he's happy to have me as opposed to his own father, but she really wanted a girl, I want a piece of myself in this world and I want us to be able to raise a child together. Besides, I'm 21, he's way too close to my age for me to be giving him advice or anything fatherly.
>>33864264She’s extracting your resources, that’s all women doYou’re young and stupidYou will ignore this message but learn through your mistakes and see clearly a bunch of years from nowWhat are you providing her with? That’s it. This isn’t limited to material assets, mind you. Attention and its commitment is the core value.
>>33864264hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahayou were pretty much groomed and fell for the 1 meme most virgins fall for and thats that they get enamoured with the first pussy they fuck lol, man up dude you settled for WAY LESS she is twice your age and she has a child are you really this hopeless and desperate?congratulations son you finally lost your virginity but are you really going to settle for some roasty chinky linky who lives on the other side of the world just cause you hit it? lol think about it she is willing to leave her husband for some tinder shlong she will do the same to you when she realizes you put up a facade and are really just a meek little retardyou managed to find a hole twice your age, you will find one your own age
>>33864264go to japan and figure it out later. I'm sure other women want white babies, you are white right... right?
>>33866802don't bother him dude he is toast. just let him go.
>>33866811>You are white right?Yes, thank God. And I've been many times and tried, there's too much competition. She thinks I'm a prize so I'm content with that.>>33866802>You will find one your own ageI don't want one, they are all retarded. She wanted to cosplay in bed, I think she would do almost anything for me, or she's just super freaky. Either way, win.>>33866744What resources? I'm a broke college student, she knows that. She paid for all my meals, bought me gifts. It's not much, but she didn't want me to pay for anything. Tbh, what it comes down to is I don't want to try to find pussy anymore, I'm more than ok with my situation. I'm an emotional fag too so if we aren't together anymore for whatever reason, I won't be able to bounce back for a long ass time. I don't want to be miserable, so if it can work, I'll make it work and I'll be happy with it.>>33864568I just want my parents to be happy for me and not disappointed, treat her like family. I don't expect them to pay for anything, though i wouldn't say no either.
>>33864264>i know its risky of both miscarriage or disabled child. I dont careI hope your future hapa son with down syndrome bashes your head in and strangles you to death in a fit tard rage after he realizes that you're responsible for his life of suffering.
I wonder what a hapa with down syndrome looks like?
I don't think you will have a tard baby anon. Is there a jap equivalent of a nursing home the stroke paralyzed husband can be sent away to forever?
To maximize your potency and ensure the health of your child you need to do the following:1. Maximize your personal health. Your epigenetics will play a role in your kid's health.>If you're overweight, get fit>don't consume any alcohol for at least 3 months>don't smoke or vape or do any drugs>as best you can, eat a clean diet of whole foods - no premade packaged slop.>be well hydrated>get 8 hours of deep, restful sleep on a consistent basis2. Don't jack off too much. It takes about 3 days for your body to produce new sperm. If you're blasting loads every day your count is going to be way down from optimal levels.3. Supplements to consider:- zinc (20-50mg per day)>selenium (200mcg per day)- Vitamin D (best to get from the sun, but ok to take a supp in winter)- Vitamin K2 (pair with vitamin D to keep calcium out of your soft tissue)If this is really important to you, you ought to do everything you can to improve your health because that will improve your sperm quality.
OP just outlined the Chad path to Japanese citizenship as a foreigner, and you're all laughing at him. He's laughing on his free ticket and way to Japan.>Have sex with a 45 year old Japanese MILF>There is nothing better than OL pussy, and even better if she's a MILF, the fetish goes both ways>You get to marry her and move to JapanAre you all gay?Anyways, post this to /int/ OP. This board sucks.
>>33864264>>33869942>Wants to impregnate and marry old jap woman that already has a kid and husband that he barely even knows>Is a broke college 21 year old student You know this isn't going to end well for you. I'd understand if you were just having fun with her but seriously committing to a woman like that is really fucking stupid. You can easily find a younger woman. Plenty of young gaijin hunters there.
>>33872934Random fucking Jeets can go to Japan. You don't need to knock up and marry an old hag for that and have kids that might have some problems because of mothers age. What the fuck is the purpose of being in Japan if not for young girls?
>>33873110>Random fucking Jeets can go to Japan.Their border is closed.>What the fuck is the purpose of being in Japan if not for young girls?Lol, lmao even. How many young Jap girls have you talked to anon? They are Chad only. Anyways why are you acting like OP can't just cheat on the hag once he's established himself there? Of course, he'd want to be careful with that, as Japan immigration law is only valid for long term spouses.
>>33873130I am married to an asian and I never had to live in Asia. Regular guys are like Chads to most asian women. Marriage, migration child-support, cheating? Are you stupid? Even if you can't manage to find a gf (which would require some serious mental or physical retardation), Japan is full of prostitutes, they are probably the most open minded first world country about prostitution.
This hit home because I met a cute little 45 year old last weekend. She kept calling me hot and touching me and said that she was in the process of a separation and her husband was an asshole. Probably hasn't fucked in years and wanted some young schlong. She got cold feet, though. I repeat: did not smash.Hey, OP. Glad your first time was raw but you spent probably $1000 to fly over there. That was a really expensive lay. Don't try to impregnate a 45 year old. In 20 years, you'll be middle aged with a really ugly wife and a kid who's probably bedridden. I'm sure getting a MILF to cheat on her husband with you was a lot of fun but it's not the deciding event of your life. It's just an experience. You're 24. Go find a girl your age and try spending more than 2 days with her before you commit to creating a life.
>>33864264Bad decision. Chemicals in your brain are clouding your judgement. Think of her as an expensive prostitute then move on with your life. Find a younger jap to impregnate.
>>33873306He's making a good decision. The chemicals in his brain are oxytocyn. If OP listens to any of these naysaying posts, he's an idiot. Women nowadays aren't even proper women. They are glued to their phones, can't cook, can't be proper housewives. Finding a quality young woman to marry is impossible. An older Japanese woman is still vastly superior to quality of the vast majority of women you find in the wild.
>>33873831>>33872934>noooo don't listen to anyone, just listen to my jap milf fetish advice
>>33864264>lose my virginity >we both want to marry and have kids one dayThis is so retarded. Why woudl you want to marry the first chick you had sex with? Shes an older single mom who lives on the other side of the world, is from a vastly difefrent culture with tons of baggage on top.Calm your fucking tits, reduce contact with her, wait for the hormonal flush to disspiate a bit and then use your newfound sexual confidence to try out other girls. Eventually , one will stick. You've got your introduction to sex, whcih is great. No need to keep doing weird shit to get laid, get a social life and meet women the normal way (read: not off internet dating trash).
