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I know, I know - Why would you want to do that? Well, my boyfriend cheated on me and I want to get revenge but I don't actually want to cheat back just cause him some anxiety and scare him because I'm petty. SO men, what would make you suspicious and/or women have you done this yourself?
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>>33864791
I think you should break up with him but its fine if you want to make him suffer.

Talk about a guy friend a lot so he will get jelaous. Leave the house and come back really late. Be over protective over your phone and smile to it. Make jokes about other guys being pretty/smart. Show less interest in him

hope i helped
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This is going to backfire so much. If you do that, what do you think it's the likelihood of him ACTUALLY cheating on you again by thinking you're cheating on him?]

or

Even worst, what are the chances of him actually doing something stupid that could potentially destroy both lives?
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>>33864804
Never thought about outright talking about another guy to him... lol. Will give all this stuff a try, thanks! :)
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>>33864814
Oh sorry I forgot to mention but I plan on dumping him after this, so he won't have an opportunity to cheat on me again. Also, do something to destroy both of our lives.... like get violent? Seems a little extreme for someone who cheated first, but I'll be careful lol
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>>33864836
>Seems a little extreme for someone who cheated first
Look, if someone willingly cheats, what guarantees they can't kill? Just break up with him. It's better this way.
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>>33864791
Just break up instead of...
>>33864814
this
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>>33864863
I mean him cheating has made me feel dead inside BUT cheating on someone and killing someone aren't on the same level AT ALL
I'm gonna get my revenge first and thats all there is to it
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>>33864896
>cheating on someone and killing someone aren't on the same level AT ALL
It's the same as in both takes you to hell. If someone is willing to cheat, they are willing to kill. How far can a human go? I wouldn't doubt.
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>>33864836
>Oh sorry I forgot to mention but I plan on dumping him after this
God I miss being the age where I had the time/energy to be so performative and petty. Youth is truly wasted on the young.
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>>33864994
Youth is a state of mind. Don't let your dreams just be dreams, you too can achieve revenge and justice my friend. Don't allow your beliefs to limit you, or do, and just live vicariously through me :)
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>>33865160
>Youth is a state of mind
Kek. A thing only a youth would say.

>Don't let your dreams just be dreams, you too can achieve revenge and justice my friend
I have neither the time nor interest in sinking precious energy into shitty people. Its a colossal waste of my time.

>Don't allow your beliefs to limit you, or do, and just live vicariously through me :)
Nah I'm good. Thanks though.
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>>33865167
Says the person who just used the term "Kek". You're probably not even old, give me a break
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>>33864791
Provide context on why he cheated you and of course a perfect reason why you still go with him after all that.

I don't think you cheating back makes any sense at all doing this. Context matters or else none of this matters.
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I was going to give you advice but I saw you're a name fag and a very conceited one at that so now you get nothing, hope he doesn't notice, and dumps you anyways.
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>>33865547
You sound like a 13 year old boy who hasn't come out of the closet yet.
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>>33865527
Dude wtf do you mean "provide context on why he cheated on you"
There's never a "reason" to cheat on anyone unless they cheated first. Otherwise there's NO justifiable reason to cheat. Also she clearly states that she wants to hurt him how he hurt her, that's the reason. YOU don't have to agree with it but I and many others who have been cheated on understand that kind of hurt and understand why.840ma
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>>33865783
>very mature insult back lady, lol
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>>33865830
>very mature racist insult faggot, lol
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>>33865217
Dimiss the entire of my advice because I said "Kek". You have a lot of growing up to do. Do what you want, I don't give a shit lol.
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>>33864791
>Want to do something stupid to get revenge
>Do stupid thing thinking other person will just react with feelings like you want
>Person snaps, shoots you six times in the face and then dismembers your body and buries it in a swamp

Just not a bright way of thinking, OP.
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>>33865889
Y'all are SO dramatic! Lmaoooo
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>>33865878
I'm sure OP didnt take what you said as advice lol. You're sitting here trying to come off as "wow I'm so mature I don't have time to pour my energy into these childish games" while you're LITERALLY replying to a thread that's on 4chan. Get the fuck over yourself with your stupid ass youth comments. You're not clever, you're not wise, and you're not better than anyone else loser.
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>>33865875
is calling you a lady being racist?
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>>33865889
she's very dumb and now angry people are not agreeing with her retarded decisions, let this thread die.
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>>33865943
>You're sitting here trying to come off as "wow I'm so mature I don't have time to pour my energy into these childish games" while you're LITERALLY replying to a thread that's on 4chan.
Its weird that you think those two things somehow contradict each other. Also, its really not that mature. Its like boilerplate adulting. Anybody over 35 with a relatively developed frontal lobe is like this. Its nothing special.

>Get the fuck over yourself with your stupid ass youth comments. You're not clever, you're not wise, and you're not better than anyone else loser.
Rock on, dude. Either take the advice or don't. I really don't care.
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>>33865943
she's very angry and just replying out of anger by now, she might make sense once or twice but the anger behind her posts is very obvious and there's no point in replying to her anymore.
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>my boyfriend cheated on me and I want to get revenge but I don't actually want to cheat
Get a better boyfriend. Best revenge there is
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>>33865803
>YOU don't have to agree with it
It's you who doesn't understand psychology.

OP wanted revenge to make her boyfriend understand what cheating feels like. Some people out there don't have empathy and the only way to make them have empathy is to give them the same treatment hence the golden rule:
"Don’t do unto others what you wouldn’t want done to you."

and the phrase:
"have a taste of your own medicine."

>Also she clearly states that she wants to hurt him how he hurt her, that's the reason.
I was asking about why her boyfriend cheated NOT her reason why she wants to cheat back.
Fake cheating out of revenge doesn't do any damage if the person doesn't really care about you anymore or what not. I also wanted to know if OP is that gullible or not.

>There's never a "reason" to cheat on anyone unless they cheated first.
I know how cheating works and know how to prevent them. If you were suffering from depression and have binge eating disorder/bulimia to the point you look like a disgusting fat pig than you used to be despite being told take care of your health and maintain fit with all warnings then you deserved to be cheated on. You brought this demise upon yourself. There's many reason why people cheat when you can't satisfy your partners needs and wants in maintaining the relationship. I never cheated on anyone but you also need to know why her boyfriend cheated for a learning lesson not to repeat the same mistakes and other people deserve a chance. We all make mistakes in life provided that person really regretted it and is willing to make amends. There's no such thing as perfect partner but everyone's got their own limits of toleration.
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>he sends you a msg
>leave on sent for hours
>around 10pm or so reply to him via pic and image (assuming on ig or snap)
>black background
>single line reading ''shes busy bro''
>ignore every call and msg dont open any others

youre welcome, im a dude and I would crash the fuck out very hard, make sure youve locked your doors etc in case he actually pulls up as well
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>>33867560
weak advice, this one will send him west whereas merely mentioning other dudes will tick him off, if you wanted to get really fucking evil take a pic of your leg and get AI to edit on a hand, make sure the tv is on like youre chilling in a room with a dude or get AI to edit in another leg, specifically a dude wearing grey sweats or something so its subtle, he'll see it and be like wtf is that then ignore the fuck out of him.
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or to get absolutely diabolical to enhance the first one of the black background with the text ''shes busy bro'' you could press record instead of taking a pic and have the phone laying on the bed faced down so again it records nothing but on a laptop get up some audio porn of a dude plapping a woman so its sloppy, some amateur shit but not over the top, no moaning and that will honestly kill him. Depends how petty youre feeling really but just remember this, when it slipped out he put it back in ;)
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>>33865803
Why did he cheat on her
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>>33865889
Lol
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>>33866118
>I really don't care.
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Stay with him don’t sleep
With him. Become recluse. Stop giving him affection. Then emotionally cheat on him behind his back with somewhere better then slowly cut him off. Until you just break up with him and have a relationship with the better guy. That will crush his soul and you will do so much better he will be nonexistent and probably be miserable. Let him be with the trash cheating woman he likes.



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