Why would someone want a girlfriend? Isn't it just babysitting with extra steps?
>>33864870monkey brain, but yeah its babysitting with extra steps
No one will be by your deathbed if you continue to carry these malignant shorthands with you in your life anon.
>>33864876NTA but ive accepted that im going to probably die a homeless hobo
>>33864870Pussy
>>33864870> The grapes are sour, and I don't even want them!I'm not very experienced, and I'm here on 4chan, and even I know how amazing and soul-fullfilling a nice gf can be. It's even better than you think. Pure mind-altering multi-dimensional pleasure, better than drugs.
>>33864870If you don't understand why people like romantic companionship and you genuinely view women as children you need to babysit then be alone, OP. Nobody cares.
>>33865094Not OP but have the same issue? Or at least I also don't see what's so important about having a girlfriend?
>>33864870hormones
>>33865152>Or at least I also don't see what's so important about having a girlfriend?It's not "important" perse, its just a thing people enjoy because it enhances their lives and fulfills their desire for romantic connection. If you don't have the desire and don't see the point then don't get a girlfriend.
>>33865176Okey? Fine for me I guess>Captcha: ASSM8
>>33864870Women are basically there to receive from men. So your goal would be to have so much love and generosity that you are overflowing and need somewhere to put it. They do give something back, but it's usually not as much as what you give them, as they lack the means. Since women are esoterically empty vessels who desire to join someone else's mission.
>>33865190Interesting, actually that explains me a lot
>>33865190>Since women are esoterically empty vessels who desire to join someone else's mission.You've never meaningfully engaged with an adult woman, anon. Nobody who has would think something so silly.
>>33864870>not wanting to take care of a hot girl that loves you unconditionallysome people are born with their instincts brokenI'm guessing you're autistic.
>>33865094It's nice until it's not nice anymore
>>33865460Unconditional love doesn't exist outside of parents
>>33864901U are genuinely horrible if you only date a personal for that
>>33865120This
>>33864870This would imply that a father doesn’t enjoy time with his daughter.
>>33864870I like women and want one of them to be my closest friend because I would like my future wife to be my best friend.Can’t say I see any similarities to babysitting.
Don't reproduce. Its babysitting with no extra steps. You're also paying for the experience instead of getting paid.Leave the girls to me.
It goes away with age and sooner than you think.At 14 I was an absolute mess. Nothing but girls in my brain, badly wanted to be in a loving and supportive relationshipAt 18 I had begun to feel more independent but still spent a lot of time piningAt 22 I was largely over itAt 26 I can't imagine having to coordinate any amount of my life with anyone else. Like it sounds unworkable to me now actively, let alone pleasant or desirableMy strong suspicion is that this is mostly a hormonal thing, it comes and goes for people in different timeframes
>>33864870Loneliness, horniness, social and biological conditioning. You can see your cage for what it is, but you're still trapped inside.
>>33864870It's a warm onahole with self-cleaning equipment.
>>33866538best post ITT
>>33866547you are quite literally begging to be cucked with that attitude. imagine seeing a married couple and the girl introduces her husband as a friend. i can never understand why a man would want that
>>33865707sure bro
>>33866682It is true in the sense that the only person who can ever truly love a man is his mother.
>>33866672It’s not like I would introduce my wife as my friend, you moron. I would just prefer to marry a woman that I considered my closest friend.
>>33864870>Why would someone want a girlfriend? Isn't it just babysitting with extra steps?Yes but then THEY can babysit YOU and that's hawt.
>>33864870I'm guessing you never had a close friendship? Like a really close friendship, someone you could be completely emotionally open with and vulnerable around?also >>33865120
>>33866706no thats gay and never happens>>33866970nta but i have never had a close friendship and ive always closed myself off and lost trust in people
>>33866977>never had a close friendship and ive always closed myself off and lost trust in peopleI used to be same (and still am to some extent) but going to therapy helped me massively to work on myself in that regard. Life is a lot better now, I've made a good friend I can really trust and be vulnerable with without second guessing myself constantly.And it also made me understand that a romantic relationship is so much more than just having access to physical intimacy
>>33866990>vulnerable friendship with a girlBest of luck lmao
>>33866990i dont know man, this is one of the few websites where i can be myself. therapy scares me away because of the social aspect and that my name would be noted.. i hope you're ok, i find it hard to make close friends because of instagram/app culture and peoples need to always outdo another..
>>33867007>i find it hard to make close friends because ofHobby+guys=easy friendship. You need to redefine what a “close” friendship is. Close friendship for guys is about preservation and protection. We don’t want to have to deal with emotional horseshit…we just do because when he have to to preserve to good shit (which is the normal shit). It IS transactional in the sense that my bros rarely ask from me and i rarely ask from them..so we both know that when some real shit comes up, it’s important enough to preserve what we have without that stuff.
>>33867007>therapy scares me away because of the social aspect and that my name would be notedIt's becoming more and more socially accepted. I get it though, it took me a very long time and lots of convincing from people around me who already went to start going to.Think of it this way: If you broke your finger, would it be a good idea to have some societal pressure talk you out of going to a doctor about it?
