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You all, there is an attractive 20f who is very friendly working at a store I frequent very often. The issue is though I'm a 31m. The age gap looks very intimidating to me, and I'm not so sure if I should pursue this. Should I still try to befriend her and get to know her a bit more? Would I look creepy?
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>>33865171
>20f who is very friendly working at a store I frequent very often
How do you know how old she is
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Do you know her schedule? 15 min before she gets off work, go into the store and tell her you are headed to try a restaurant or cafe nearby for the first time and ask her if she's tried it. Either way, tell her you'll be there if she wants to stop by after work.
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>>33865171
>Should I still try to befriend her
>Would I look creepy?
She's not interested in you of course you'll be creepy. It'll all looked so forced and don't mistake her "friendliness" when that's the role of her work.

Do it anyway if you have the balls. Either she rejects you or you don't try which is the same as being rejected since you don't have her.

The only way to know is to do it.
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>>33865300
I agree with this dude, I think this is the best way to go about it without seeming completely weird OP.
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>>33865171
I was dating a 20yo as a 40yo dude not too long ago
but it depends on your country and culture I guess
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>>33865171
Give her your card but attach a condom to it. Just don't puncture it with the stapler because you might need it later if she contacts you. Otherwise she's going to take a picture of your card and put it on the internet so the rest of us can call you a creep for stalking a young 20 year old female.
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>>33865453
Which country?
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>>33868218
Nigeria
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>>33865171
Have you made small talk?
If you haven’t, you should
After doing that a couple of days, do what anon >>33865300 said
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>>33868223
Uff
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Creeping on women who work at stores is not good, they are not interested in you but are a captive to their work. Likely would walk in the opposite direction of you if they saw you outside work.



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