Hello I have been on the *chans since 2008, I was 28 when I lost my virginity in 2024 and now I have the following dillema:-I have realized that getting the attention of women is too easy, and in this realization young women are all over me--my young zoomer gf of close to 2 years now(who took my virginity) was a virgin herself before I took hers, but:-I am feeling an inescapable gravitational FOMO pull to empty myself in other young zoomers: specifically white girls with nose and lip rings and thick spanish/black women with huge behinds. I realize that:--- this is likely due to my being a sexless/fuckless virgin from age 15-28, the ages I most desired sex(or so I thought). now my every waking thought is filled with wanting to breed with these trashy women that are after me. I want:----to stay with my loyal gf which I devirginized, but somehow to quench this thirst which I know won't likely leave me if I quench it nowThis is the advice I seek: should I quench it now and keep my gf in the dark, which I assume will lead to a lifetime of guilt/and or her finding out and leaving me, or tamp it down and feel like a sex fiend for the rest of my life, forever thirsting after the forbidden white/pierced Scene and big black Booty which I never attained in my teen/early-mid 20s year due to curable low-level autism/social retardation which I cured myself of in my late 20s by the grace of God
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>>33865900>Former KHHV is only now discovering preselectionWelcome to the ball-crushing frustration of a paradox that is the fact that it's much easier to get a girl when you already have one. Women that don't even know you or know that you have a GF will even come onto more strongly because they can smell it, it's pheromonal. All unconscious but they can smell both your "I'm a guy that's fucking rn" pheromones and her pussy pheromones. It's also in your demeanor and body language, but again only visible to the female subconscious. If you break up with your GF to play the field, UNLESS YOU HAVE SOMETHING SOLID ALREADY LINED UP, you'll lose this superpower and up invisible to women again. Ironic, isn't it?The grass is not greener either. If you truly have no principles then you should be able to get some side pussy here and there without your GF's knowledge, but it's gonna be more trouble than it's worth by a longshot.
>>33865900grass is always greener anon, you'll never be happy as long as you don't realize that but also as long as you have unfulfilled desires inside of youI was kinda the same as you and I ruined a perfect 5year relationship because I got incredibly bored of her towards the end and started seeing my optionsgood news, I fucked everything I've ever wanted under the sun, blondes, black Caribbean chicks, latinas, etc etc. Except asians but I think I have a curse against that, I've tried for years and everyone else seems piece of cake for me except them.thing is no girl got to the level my ex was relationship wiseI had my fun and I can say I can lay that part of me to rest now but I do miss her and I do think I was maybe better off staying with her and marrying her instead of doing these middle age crisis I did
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Good sex contributes to relationship satisfaction, but it’s not the foundation. I’ve had plenty of sex and variety but could not find someone to build a life with. A life partner matters more than sex.
>>33867192But how do you cope with knowing you missed out on all that sex?
