I should start by saying I'm only 21, so my feelings could change. I think I want children, but the idea of taking hands-on care of little kids, cleaning up after their messes, changing diapers, washing them, feeding them, etc is just repulsive to me. But the idea of intellectually raising, teaching, and mentoring a child is extremely appealing to me. Does this mean I'd make a bad father, or is this just the natural way for men to think? I know in the past men would just simply not take on the caretaker role, but all the messaging from society seems to be that you're a bad person if you do so. Is this just another feminist psyop or would I really be ill-suited to parentage?
the shit and piss are much less repulsive when they're coming out of the thing you love most in the world
>>33866570People say this or whatever but I don't know if I'd think so. Most men didn't in the past.
>>33866553They grow up oh so fast. Time really does fly doesn't it? Don't decide, and time will make your decision for you.
>>33866582you're 21, i don't care what you think
>>33866589My grandmother had my dad at 22...
>>33866582Kids were cleaned, washed and fed enough for the human race to survive
>>33866593...by women
>>33866585Well I mean I'd need to find a woman first
>>33866594Forgotten that most anons here didn't have dads.
>>33866553in eastern society , at least 30 and more years ago , what passed of 20 was already expired for marriage , and i mean it . so idk , for thousands of years we were getting married at 16-18. and in the last 20 years we re getting fucked . idk , in this society is normal to marry even at 40
Changing diapers isn't bad at all honestly. Only thing that sucks is a blowout or if it seeps out. No worse than having a cat that occassionally throws up on your carpet or whatever. The baby times are unironically the easiest times. Once they're old enough to have problems beyond basic food and care needs, shit gets way more difficult.
>>33866553you get used to it like everything in life.
