I’m 28 and I can’t stand my wife. I really try to be a real ass nigga but the fucking disrespect. I have visions of hitting her whenever she starts nagging me or ignoring me for menial shit. And I know it’s wrong but goddamn it I don’t know how to deal with all the resentment and anger I have bottled up. I’m sad all of the time and whenever we get close again she fucks it up by acting like huge fucking bitch. We’ve got a kid and I’m afraid he’ll grow up all fucked from watching the constant arguing. I’ll give you an example of the things she does>toddler wakes up from nap 15 min late>she didn’t wake him up>he’s got to go to afternoon preschool>she asks me to read him a book so he eats faster>’ok sure’>even when I work from home I make the time to do things like this>she ain’t working so she does house and kid stuff>my mother in law arrives to the house>wife tells her in a very mean way to ‘shut the hell up’ because she’s distracting the baby and she needs it to eat fast because she’s late>I tell her to not mistreat people in front of the kid bc I don’t want him learning to treat people like that>she starts chimping out and pressuring the kid to eat fast>I get really angry and tell her she should have awoke him fifteen minutes earlier if she gets so stressed about being late>’well then I’m not fucking taking him to preeschool!’>wife spends the rest of the day with the kid inside the houseI feel like I should divorce her but I fear I’ll become a stranger to my boy. I’ve talked to her about this behavior so many times and she hasn’t even made an attempt to change anything. We also don’t even talk anymore.And I know I’m not an asshole. I make money. I’m also the only one working. I do house chores the same as her. I take care of my boy and I spend time with home. Hell I even try going out and spending time with her.
>>33867128COUPLES WHO MADE IT PAST 30 YEARS REVEALED SOMETHING SURPRISING:It wasn’t love, s*x, or kids that kept them together. It was the ability to tolerate the same things in each other—over and over again. The couples who divorced thought, “This habit drives me crazy, but I can fix it.” The ones who stayed? “This is who they are. They’re not changing.”Long marriages rarely resolve every conflict. That’s a myth. Couples who lasted 30+ years didn’t dig into every hurt feeling. They learned to let go. Not suppress—release. “You forgot again,” “You said the wrong thing again”—short-term couples turn that into a fight. Long-term couples let it slide. Because they chose peace over being right.The real skill of lasting couples? Quick emotional recovery. It’s not about never fighting. It’s about bouncing back fast. He snapped two hours ago—and now he’s hugging her. No pride. No “you go first.” In marriages that last, the winner isn’t the one who’s right—it’s the one who comes back first.The strongest couples weren’t bonded by “we have everything in common.” They were bonded by “we face the world together.” A shared struggle: poverty, toxic relatives, building a business, even a shared hatred for the system. Anything that puts you on the same team—us vs. the world—builds the bond. Couples without external pressure? More likely to crack from the inside.And the biggest truth? Almost every long-term marriage had a moment where they were ready to call it quits. Almost all of them. But they didn’t. Not because they couldn’t—but because they gave it more time. Most common answer: “I decided to do nothing. And six months later, things shifted.” Turns out, most marriage crises die off—if you just stop feeding them.
>>33867128>We’ve got a kid and I’m afraid he’ll grow up all fucked from watching the constant arguing.The turning point for my life to get better was the divorce of my parents. Let that sink in. Marriage today is not really marriage. Because marriage was created by God, and most people don't have God.
>>33867182This , you are right . It's only going to get worse in years to come since people are no more morally or culturally bound to do anything. Moreover , I sometimes myself feel that if my parents get a divorce it would be better for everyone instead of keeping some dead shit alive for the sake of society .
>>33867128rape . the answer is 100% rape in your caserape her anon , when she screams and doesnt stop , just rape her . post the results here , i wanna know what happens
>>33871377Bravo, 4chan, bravo
>>33871580im 20 and i joined 4chan 2-3 days ago . it isnt 4chan that made me what i am . i guess i reall have a lot of potential , man
>>33871668Indeed
>>33871377>>33871668Nice dubs then newfag. But unironically that used to be a viable answer. Sometimes women want to be shown whose boss and put in their place, and once you do they calm down. Now don’t fucking do that OP, because with modern feminist society that will fuck you up and over, but that doesn’t mean the action wouldn’t work. :/
>>33871919RAPE HER ANON DONT LISTEN TO THAT WEAK BASEDGOY MF LISTEN TO ME ANON , i know what im talking about trust me anon you ll thank me later RAPE HER
>>33872938guys i am absolutely shivering in fear , this is a 100% paranormal event that took place LITERALLY THIS INSTANT , i literally saw the words on my screen as i wrote ''basedgoy'' and not ''basedgoy'' what the actual fuck is going on here
>>33872943GUYS ITS HAPPENED AGAINwhy cant i write s 0 y ?its the jews arent them ? FUCKING JEWS I FUCKING HATE THEM ALL
>>33872949Skill issue, sòyboy.
Really proud of you OP. Keep being a great man. Keep being a great father.I suggest talking to your mother in law about what she would like to do in situations like what happened. You make an emphasis that you will not tolerate your child learning that's it's ok to disrespect Grandma. Ask her for motherly advice.As for the wife, I can't say either way. If she's a danger to your son, Baker act.
Is she on birth control? Anything you get here is a shot in the dark since we don't know you guys personally. From an outside view often both people look like an ass like she may be a bitch but idk if you are thinking of killing her and maybe if I was there I'd think she's fine. So idk. But I would definitely get to seeing a therapist or psychologist, literally just for yourself about anything bc well you have money so fucking do it just because. Send her to therapy too. Throw money at the problem. Or just yell at her. I knew this one bitch, it sucks because I really think she may have actually been chilling out. After a few years, she finally started to realize I wasn't her enemy but by then I was the one who hated her.If you are the adult and she is the child then maybe you need to just crank that up higher. Just actually demand she do stuff. Women are pussies and one with sense might disagree but as soon as you put bass in your voice they listen
>divorced parents >shit attendance since preschool It's over for your nigglet
