Before going into dating, what happens? What are the missing steps?>Talk to girl>?????>DateIs the thing that I do not know spending time with her? If so, then what is a good way to spend time with a girl on-line?Technically I am talking to a few girls right now, but I am open to both friends and dating, I have the chance to possibly meet up with one around New Year's depending on how things go, I just want to plan stuff in advance, that way, I can have a clear path to my goal.
>>33868202>talk to girl>ask her number>text her maybe 5-10 messages>tell her you're doing something that weekend and you'd like her to join>she joins>you both have a good time>set up second dateit's that simple
>>33868252Thank you. I know it is a n00b tier question, but I have been called a good conversationalist, I just did not know how to go from there.
>>33868202>I just want to plan stuff in advance,This is the opposite of how to do it. You have to get together as soon as possible to seal the deal or else she will make excuses to ditch you.
>>33869876I have tried that and it has failed the past 40 something times. I have imporved with each time, though and I hope to finally have someone say yes by the 100th time. At this rate, it might take me another decade, though.
>>33868252Well, I did what you said about asking for a number... It really worked. I have been speaking to this girl on and off for about six years now. I will ask if she wants to go to a bookstore in town with me when she responds to my message (I know that she will respond too, she is just that kind of person).
>>338725656 YEARSBAAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHHAHALMAO killyourself
>>33873159What is so funny? Neither of us were ready then during year one. One of those six years I was caring for my father after he had a stroke, another of those six years she was busy working on a couple of neat projects as a research assistant.
