I go to college in the Pacific northwest and I am currently:Balding/receding hairline that isn't completely awful yet (taking hims supplements)5'8" but good weight and decently muscular/work out frequentlyBadly ADHD White w/ black hair and black eyes. I think I'm pretty good at talking to women but sofar I've had no luck getting them to be my girlfriend. The rare chance I am able to get a number without being rejected I'm ghosted. Should I give up hope?
Also pic is a stupid screenshot and not related
Don’t give up hopeAlso, how are Asian women in the Pacific Northwest? I kind of want to move there
>>33868363I go to college at Oregon state and there are some but not more than most
>>33868393Some good ones*
>>33868393Community college asian women are so hot, thinking of going back to school even though I already have a bachelors just to hit on girls
>>33868325>PNW>5'8">can't get a gfStop acting like you're not planning on trooning out
>>338683256'1 PNW white dude with good genes and relatively fit (no atlas by any stretch of the imagination) I've struggled when it comes to cuffin' too man, and frankly it's the women. Since covid. Things are just different now out here, you also need to consider the entire pool (men and women) is flakey due to the nature of this region. Common denomination is ourselves but to be honest I don't buy it, another thing to note is the PNW skews Male when it comes to the gender ratios so that will inheritly limit your options.It's just hard out here, I love women I really do chat so when I say something is wrong with them I strictly mean there is a culture of self harm that perpetuates misery. I know too many instances outside of my own bubble of failed relationships where a girl throws out a very healthy and sustainable life with a guy because of a fantasy that there's even someone better than the current situation.In the PNW, men are dehumanized to interchangeable objects and women are sold a fantasy to never settle. Makamura effect with a twist of narcssism. Anyway, try not to be too hard on yourself even for a guy like it's difficult out here. Just try and remain tender and kind to the ladies, maybe they'll turn over to a new leaf in time or we might just die alone who knows. Just keep carrying on.
>>33869159>In the PNW, men are dehumanized to interchangeable objects and women are sold a fantasy to never settle. This. Obviously not everyone or everywhere, but holy shit it's bad. The "anti-hate" crowd judges people immediately by gender, race, and sexuality. I'm not saying I can just tell, I mean these people say it themselves, out loud. The months after the election loss were really disappointing. I heard more complaints about "white people", "white males", straight men, etc than I have ever heard about any other demographic irl across my 30 year life. Really disappointing.Very few people are willing to acknowledge it. Older people still want to see older gender roles. Younger/liberal people see everything in terms of David oppressed demographic vs Goliath oppression demographic. Make it any more complicated and they feel attacked.Really weird when you go everywhere with a long-term gf. You occupy the same space, but live in such different worlds. She's not woke, but every woke person happily assumes she is while unloading their unsolicited political opinions, while avoiding eye contact with me.Lived here much of my life. Travelling to most other places feels like going back in time 20 years to me.
>>33869426Same wavelength, although I would argue not David v Goliath but rather a marxist lens of oppressed v oppressor.This enviornment, as a local myself. Is a twilight zone of double binds. If you do not fit a rigid and tidy box as a man you will be demonized. The election had a hand due to these people ironically assigning a monolith to all straight white dudes despite resenting that sentiment when applied to other groups (which monoliths don't help anybody, but it is weird for them to characterize us the same)I personally blame twitter/tiktok/all short form content promoting DSM-tier narcissists to the forefront of popularity and as such perpetuates a purity spiral test in social settings. In America there aren't just 1 cult. There's 2. Maga and Marxists. Two sides of the same authoritarian coin, with narcssisim as the organizing framework of their respective political/social movements.It's refreshing to hear you anon, if only the consistent perspective was more commonplace.
