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>got a new bf
>he's great in a lot of ways
>doesn't have a social media or a picture of himself in the past couple years
>literally has no proof he's done anything in that time

He showed me his tax returns to prove he had a job and wasn't in prison like I thought. But it's still so weird. Why wouldn't he at least take a selfie while waiting for the movies or something? Is he hiding something, is this how men who live a double life live?
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>>33869394
I'm so glad I wasn't born female.
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>>33869394
I haven't posted any photos on social media since I was 12 or something? I don't even take photos anymore and have deleted all my social medias... That's not uncommon, why do people have this necessity to constantly expose their lives for several people that aren't even that close to them to see? It's illogical.
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>>33869408
It takes five seconds. You're telling me he walks the dog and there isn't a single moment he thinks the sunset looks cute and takes a selfie with her?
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>>33869419
Why does it bother you so much? It’s his life
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>>33869394
Does he have photos of anything cool or funny he saw? Or a photo of just his dog? There a lot of people who aren't into taking selfies. It is weird to have little to no photos of any sort though.
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>>33869419
>It takes five seconds. You're telling me he walks the dog and there isn't a single moment he thinks the sunset looks cute and takes a selfie with her?
Absolutely. I never had this thought. Whenever a sunset is beautiful, or the weather is good, taking a photo is the latest thing I think about. I usually just like looking at it... I have taken some pictures of sunsets before, but not to post, just to share to specific friends bcs of specific conversations.
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>>33869394
Being a girl must be hell.
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>>33869394
if he is taking pics around you of other stuff but not you that's a red flag but if he doesn't take pics in general you're overthinking
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>>33869394
Does he work in IT? That's kind of common if so.
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>>33869736
I don't know he does something with computers. I didn't really understand when he explained it. Does that change things?

>>33869660
He'll take pictures of a leaf or something so why can't he turn the camera around and get himself.
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>>33870034
So you're literally upset he doesn't take selfies? You're actually retarded. Please stop embarassing your gender.
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>>33869394
You dont deserve him. You should break up with him so he has a chance of being with someone better than you.
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If an actual female posted this and not some weird larp shit, I genuinely avoid dating to avoid dealing with stupid fucking shit like this, why the fuck does it matter? Are women so high on their own ego they have to document every single fucking bullshit moment? Just live your life and shut the hell up. This isn’t a fucking movie and you’re not the main character. I can’t even imagine having to deal with having this conversation with a woman irl, they’d probably just break down crying.
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>>33869394
Social media is retarded and you're a brainwashed retard for feeling the need to post pictures of your life online so strangers can see
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>>33869394
I'm like that as well, never made any social media profiles in my whole life, I don't want to share my life details to random internet strangers nor do I want any validation or attention from it
he values his privacy and you should respect it
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>>33869394
This is some fake copypasta from a few months ago.

ENERGY DRAIN THREAD

LEAVE NOW

LEAVE NOW
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>>33869394
>Why wouldn't he at least take a selfie while waiting for the movies or something?
He's not vain and knows that social media is shallow/performative.
>Is he hiding something
It's called privacy. Some people value it.
>>33869419
No, most men don't take selfies. They take photos of the things/objects/events that are interesting. They don't need their face taking up most of the frame.
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>>33869394
I have less than a dozen selfies in my entire life, and I’m 34 with my first phone at 16. My friend who is a girl has more pictures of me than I do of myself. When I take pictures it’s mostly of other stuff. I’m almost never in frame.
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>>33869419
>a single moment he thinks the sunset looks cute and takes a selfie with her?
i would take a photo of the sunset or the dog, but never a selfie. why would i? i know what i look like, i can see it any time
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Your boyfriend is a smart guy. He understands social media companies are just datamining operations that profit by selling your personal information. You should be elated that you've found somebody who isn't an idiot.
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Men dont fucking take pictures 90% of the time unless they are trying to get laid
not once in my life have I ever wanted to take a picture of anything

90% of the time women takes pictures of shit its just to post on social media, and they couldnt care less about the shit they took a picture of
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>>33869394
Cheeto fingers wrote this bait.
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I have enough of suffering while watching myself in the mirror during doing hygiene stuff, I don't want to suffer any longer while watching myself on pictures
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>>33869394
I don't have social media whatsoever either, that shit is poison, and I din't like broadcasting my day to day life to strangers I don't give a shit about
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>>33869394
He is just not into social media, green flag for me,

My husband and I are the same, people asume we are in bad terms because we don't post anything. The truth is we are best friends and our relationship is really healthy, we just don't post cuz we don't share our life and don't care what others think. Also we avoid drama that way.
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>>33869419
I might take a pic of the dog but why of myself? At most if I wanted to make my grandma happy. But if he had noone to send that picture to why make it?
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>>33869394
fucking faggots and their shitty bait threads
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>>33869394
Is this bait? Why would I "take a selfie while waiting for the movies"?
What's the purpose of that?
Also I'm banned from Goybook and Instathot
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>>33869419
>the sunset looks nice
Then I will take a photo of the sunset. Why do I need to be in it? I can look in the mirror at home anytime.
>>33872543
I do take pictures often, but of things that are interesting or places I'm at for a limited time only. Like this chinese broccoli that bloomed in the fridge
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>>33869394
He is literally me. At least I have a couple of friends as alibi.
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>>33869394
>>doesn't have a social media or a picture of himself in the past couple years
This is a problem because? Maybe I just don't like having my face online.
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>>33872745
Hot, can I lick his nuts and cum leaking from your gaping warm pussy hole?



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