>be me as a kid/teen>always hyped to meet new people and hang with friends>vidya sessions, card games, just shooting the shit - good times>flash forward to now>everything's different.jpg>sometimes get the urge to be social>hit up someone random via text/call>literally 5 minutes later already want to ghost>go days without talking to anyone and honestly feel fine about it>see maybe 2-3 people like twice a month tops>that's all the human interaction I can handle>tfw stuck between enjoying being alone and feeling lonely>but also don't actually want to fix it>need like 90% alone time, 10% people time>no gf obviously>mfw I don't even know if this is a problemanyone else like this or am I just broken?
>>33870586this happens to me too, i really want a gf but at the same time i know that i would get annoyed with her so i don't approach women
>>33870586Terrible! I'm extremely social and still don't have a gf!! I literally have a hobby group each day of the week, 5 different groups. And scum 9 to 5 Monday through Friday, AND school clubs which I go to 2 times a week after school and before my hobby groups, AND on the weekends I go to hikes and meet friends and go to other meetups and eventsWhat will you say if I do so much and still can't get a gf?? You're so far from me!
>>33871018School*Also, you're so far from me yet so close. I was a hermit like you in March but changed it around. The only thing I had is the extreme will to do this.If you don't have this inner drive to do it and understanding that other people are the solution - then you have no hope, but you can turn this around man.
>>33871018don't you feel sometimes better when you're alone at home? reading stuff online, building something. what you're doing, all those things would be too much. i need more time alone.
