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I have to cast an independent film, this requires asking female friends for both head shots and clothes sizes.
This is a far as I know a death sentence.
Also the main girl I am asking is my main crush.... The real down side is I have to let her know I really need that info so that we can finish casting.

I just need the right words to say "send the damn headshot already, I am not asking as a crush but to get some work done".
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just don't be fucking weird and ask her already so you can finish casting
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>>33871160
What is it for? What is the film?
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>>33872465
I had let her know I needed it but she didn't sent it over...
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>>33872475
Horror, independent, and short.
Really just the local special effects guys playing with some toys.
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>>33872532
Special effects toys? Like what?
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>>33872551
Guns, smoke bombs or smoke generators, maybe small squibs. Maybe some lights effects.
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Fuck it.
I asked one in person, is it ok to just say "I really do need that pic / info, could you send it over?"
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yes that is fine, reiterate that you need it to move the casting along and give her a deadline
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>>33872827
I hate to ever be pushy but I think I need to lay down a time line.
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I also went ahead and asked a second person. I can't look like a dummy just because I am waiting on someone else.
It's shitty because I know "let me get a pic of you" isn't the most comfortable thing but the context is obvious and I have to get on with things. Also she is really blond and honestly not perfect because of that.
I hate it.
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Update.
No responses.
Turns out asking girls questionable things isnt good for social good graces.

Mark down two people I'll never speak to again.
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>>33875229
a headshot for a casting isnt questionable, you are just dealing with people that dont care
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>>33875359
I am dealing with young ladies. they assume everything is questionable until proven otherwise.
I dont find asking to be strange at all, but I am aware they might think its strange.



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