what do people mean when they say they "click" with someone? what sorts of things do you have to talk about to have chemistry? is it always the same or can "clicking" with someone mean different things? I think it's been years since I've had an "easy" conversation, I always have to force myself to talk and I feel so scared, I don't know what to do. I'm talking to a guy online right now and I really want to try to build a real connection with him, but all I can think about is how I need to make sure he likes me, how I need to figure out what I need to do to not seem boring or weird, etc. It's so painful.
"clicking" is basically having a best friend that you can fuck at any moment.Not in a platonic sense, but in a romantic sense.My last girlfriend we could take about Warframe and builds for weapons/characters, autistically with math calculcations then proceed to send Warframe rule34 to each other and then masturbate together.That is as "clicky" as it gets.>all I can think about is how I need to make sure he likes me, how I need to figure out what I need to do to not seem boring or weird, etc.Ok 2 things:1. you are obviously not "clicking"2. you are a girl, stop stressing because he will like you anyway no matter what you do or say because you are dating in 2025
>>33872871Two part answer:1) Clicking means you quickly grasp that the opposite person is compatible with you. In particular when you've got a strong personality that means you'll get good at sniffing out people who can be your allies, friends etc.2) Social things, (like almost everything for that matter), are like a muscle. You've got to hit the gym to get stronger. You're having a tough time because you've spent too much time on your computer instead of exercising your social muscle.
I remember how it was when we were together.
>>33872871Online people are not really people. You can't judge real attraction from somebody you never met.
>>33876442Not true. It doesn't matter the medium in which you meet the person you love. You learn who they are by spending time with them on video discord calls, texting with them, hanging out with them and then the distance is bridged. That is when you were in person. The path is clear forward. As long as love is true
I'm a quiet antisocial person so most of my social interactions are awkward. However i have 'clicked' with both talkative and quiet people. Its just a comfy vibe. If it is meant to be, it is. If it isn't you're just forcing yourself to be a different person and thats cringe
