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Why are women obsessed with validation?

Some women are insecure and feel good about being with an ugly guy because they know a lot of girls wont go after him. And he will worship her
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>>33873235
>Why are women obsessed with validation?
Everybody is obsessed with validation, we all just express that need in different ways. Contrary to popular belief, human behavior is fairly predictable. Given a certain set of environmental factors and influences, especially in early development, its pretty easy to predict how people are going to turn out. The idea that we're all these hyper independent beings who consciously choose our attachment styles and emotional regulation is false. Its a distressing thing to accept because it acknowledges that so much of the foundation of our personalities is out of our control.

The long and the short of it is that the internet has massively increased the size of our world but also increased the amount of exposure to social influences, both negative and positive. The fear of being alone/unwanted/undesirable only seems to grow the larger our communities are. We could go into historicals but its primarily three things. a) the exponential rise in dysfunctional households where children aren't given the proper positive reinforcement, b) a society that, especially post WWII, puts a social premium on women being only as valuable as their youth and beauty, and c) an absolutely rabid male-driven demand for pornography.

For the record, people have always been obsessed with belonging. The internet just hyper accelerates these innate drives and allows you a window into lives you wouldn't have seen otherwise.
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>girl posts her fat tits online for attention
>wtf why are there so many perverts???
>chops them off to stop creepy men from DMing them
>attention dissappears, viewers drop
Everytime
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>>33873235
>Why are women obsessed with validation?
That is the nature of women. Women will cease to exist if they are no longer percieved.
>And he will worship her
This is the problem. Men are simps and third world men are the greatest simps. To control women you must control men. However disgruntled you are towards women your disgust towards men should be greater.
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>>33873489
This, funny how ppl think guys hate women when in reality I hate more the limp wristed faggots who let this happen en masse. Not saying we need to go back to beating women but holy shit...
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>>33873235
>a big chest is a disability

Death to america
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>>33873235
It's ingrained in them.
There's a video of a FtM freak who is crying about how hard it is to be a guy because it's so isolating and aren't able to talk about whatever you want.
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their existence is one of a ticking time bomb. Even the staunchest of feminists know this and is helpless against it.
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>>33873235
Wow I hadn't seen that social media post by that broad. I've been called the most bitter seething incel for pointing out 99% of what women do, including and especially cosmetic procedures, is to spite men and psyop (or is the result of being psyopped by) other women. And then she explicitly fucking confirmed that LMAO.
Unironically put women in chains and murder plastic surgeons.
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>>33873910
I remember there being a documentary (I believe from before transgender people were a mainstream thing) about a feminist woman that disguised herself as a man to live a man's life, thinking it'd be a ticket to an easy ride, only to find out being a man was very mentally taxing from how restrictive their available socialization was.

Wish I remembered the name of it. It became a meme for a few weeks years ago.
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>>33878636
The actual lesson here is that both men and women have to deal with overarching issues and complexities that the other cannot actively comprehend without living through it, but ultimately it all becomes score tallies in the battle of the sexes.
That sort of black and white thinking is how you get trannies saying shit like "Transgender men benefit from patriarchy." Like sure, if they look exactly like normal men, and they get treated like normal men, they get whatever perceived passive social benefits men receive. But often they (at best) look like gay men (who get their own slew of judgements) and (at worst) look like butch lesbians, who infamously do not get some magical social benefits for being more masculine than the average bear.
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>>33873235
logic is the last thing driving women. trying to make sense out of anything they do will only drive you mad.
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Did you want advice on something?
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>>33873235
>Some women [...] feel good about being with an ugly guy
look, they probably exist somewhere but the vast majority (like most males) feel better with an attractive partner. I wouldn't count too much on that
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>>33873235
why are women?
you ask that as if this entire forum isnt built as a validation system for incel manbabies to avoid seeing their souls accurately in the mirror
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>>33873235
A woman is a literal slave to her own emotions. She must zombie from episode to episode pulled by an invisible heartstring.
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>>33878636
Norah Vincent
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>>33873235
It's not just women, it's everyone. It's literally why you came to make this thread. Everyone needs for everyone else to accept them. It's a natural, stupid instinct left over from when we were cavemen.
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>>33880188
>A woman is a literal slave to her own emotions
>90% of all violent crime offenders are men
Really activates the almonds



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