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How do I socialize at a bar?
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>>33873738
- Go out with ppl that u know
- make sure ur clean (showered, shaved, brush teeth etc)
- depends on the bar (got any arcade bars near you? You can get stupid good at some game and make friends like that(
- order the chicken special but make sure that the bug you plant isn't visible otherwise you'll cause a huge car crash
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>>33873811
>- Go out with ppl that u know
I don't have any friends.
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>>33873738
I used to go out just to play pool by myself and even then I'd have people asking to play with/against me, I used to smoke too and drink, and etc.

Like the other guy said, barcades are fun and popular these days, it depends on the types of bars maybe you can get into sports as well, or with the most basic generic bar you can usually make small talk with the bartender about how it's your first time here and what's cool around the area or ask them what working as a bartender is like.
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>>33873738
Go to a sports bar. Comment on the game on TV. Someone will respond and start a conversation
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>>33876771
OP here. I know literally nothing about sports.
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>>33873738
Kick in the front door and loudly ask the room if anybody present likes to suck dick
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>>33873738
talk to people but a certain amount of them don't want to talk to you so just break a glass in their face and say what's your fucking problem maaaaaan
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>>33876839
You don't have to. Just say anything
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If you go to a bar you lowkey want to socialize. So if you are clean your chance to get an answer is really high.
Small talk with a little group or a lonely person but never when they are more than 7 or 8 cause in this case they surely came to the bar cause they don’t have anywhere to go, i.e they are not here to socialize.
If someone answers you and seems interested ask them for a cigarette (if you have seen them smoke before, or their pack is on the table).
if they don’t smoke just continue chatting.
A good conversation starter is to ask what they are drinking.
Good luck, Anon.
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>>33873738
Start by groping a woman, and then, invite a man outside in the dark to stab him in the kidney.
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>>33876839
>how’s the game?
>who are we rooting for?
Etc
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learn to play pool
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>>33873738
Is getting into a barfight a form of socializing? Technically it is, right? Since you're interact with others. With your fists.
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>>33873738
go with some friends, get a bit drunk(know your limits), talk to random people
that's the easiest way

going with friends provides you some kind of social momentum.
you will find it easier to talk to randoms if you've spent the last 10 minutes talking to your buddies, the bar staff, etc. as opposed to sitting silently with your drink .

in the same vein, people will be more inclined to talk to you if you have your buddies nearby. they already have some kind of hint you're not a weirdo who will talk them to death the whole evening.
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>>33879468
He said he had no friends though
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I hate the bar. I actually had someone accuse me of lying but bars all have their own vibe of course and this one I went in first thing some old hoe was like I bet you think you're so cool with ur beard and some old guy was like yeah. I was trying to say the bar sucked ass and he wouldn't believe me.

Any time you go to a bar it's like a movie but shitty and stupid. You walk in and people are like what character are you. Right now, and even once you go out, clearly, you are the guy who doesn't know what to do haha
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>>33878200
>Small talk with a little group or a lonely person but never when they are more than 7 or 8
I feel like if it's a small group (maybe just 2 or 3 people), it'd seem more like I was just butting-in. If a person is alone, I can talk to them, but otherwise it's not something I'm part of.
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>>33873738
Depends heavily on where you are from. American advice is normally useless in my country and I imagine my countries advice is dogshit for theirs.
Here you just rock up and start talking to someone. Piece of piss.
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If I go to a bar tonight dressed in a Halloween costume, what are the odds that no one else will be wearing one?
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>>33873738
drink until either talking to strangers seems doable or the staff cut you off



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