How do I have fun without alcohol? I’m in my mid-20s and I’ve been sober for 90 days. I used to party a lot at the bars but I don’t do that anymore. Can’t go back because that could cause a relapse. I’m trying to find fun things to do where I can meet people, but it’s hard to find an outlet that doesn’t involve bars or drinking.
>>33874732I play videogames or try to talk to girls.
>>33874732Just look at options in your area and try something. Try a sport that's popular where you are.
>>33874732Not sure if you're religious but church young adult groups have little if any drinking and the atmosphere at most events is not "party" so even if there are drinks you won't be pressured. Good place to meet wifey material tooAnd just fyi "young" adults usually means up to mid 30s, so you'll be good
I'm sober for 10 months right now. A month or two ago I was able to finally handle going to a bar and not drinking. It was for a band/music event and I've been back 3 times since. So you can eventually get over that and drink diet coke or something but make sure there is a good other reason to be there to distract from drinking like music. I don't think it would work in a grimy dive bar with no entertainment.
Also it wasn't a bar I ever drank at before that probably made it easier.
>>33874732It's time to move past having fun, anon. Fun is for kids, and you're not a kid anymore.
>>33874732I won't read drunkard threads.
