>miserable being alone>miserable in a relationshipWhy is life like this?
You're just miserable.
>>33875134Doesn't happen to me, so there must be some differences between you and me.
>>33875134If external matters don't change it, you're manufacturing your own misery
>>33875134You're just a gloomy person.Welcome to the club.
You want intimacy but then when you actually get it, your independence feels threatened. It’s a cycle.
>>33875134>miserable being aloneYou have zero self confidence and self love.>miserable in a relationshipZero fucking standards. Willing to accept bullshit just to not be alone>Why is life like this?Because you don't build self sufficiency. You don't build inner happiness and then pursue a relationship to share that positivity with each-other. You use it as a crutch and burden your issues on the other and wonder why you feel empty when it ends. You were empty before. And the relationship only gave the illusion of being "full."
if you don't love yourself, you're incapable of truly loving someone else
>>33875134Part and parcel of having a vagina, or injecting yourself with hormones because you think nature made a mistake in not giving you one.
