Should I be more vocal?I'm usually pretty quiet and don't seek people or talk unless spoken to or if I think I have something relevant to say like contributing to a class dialogue.
>>33875666There's nothing intrinsically good or bad about being more or less vocal. While there's a chance you're also a massive pussy that just let's other people walk all over you, it's not a necessary condition, so just talk the way you feel like talking, unless you're very shut in, then you should try to force yourself to be a bit social every once in a while.Social things are good for you, so practice that social muscle, even if that takes effort.
>>33875686>Social things are good for youHow?
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no. i lucked out on talkative and quiet friends tho
>>33878083>i lucked out on talkative and quiet friends thoWhere did you find those?
>>33879852school, work and hobbies. I played sports and whatever multiplayer game may have its discord. I also used dating apps but isn't good for friends unless you're REALLY outgoing / down to try random activities. I got lucky even being really low on social energyoh if you're not vocal texting helps a lot
>>33875666There's an old saying anon. You have 2 ears and 1 mouth so you should listen twice as much as you talk.If you want to be more social and well liked, I suggest you learn and employ active listening. People like to know and feel like they are being heard and understood, and if you learn how to provide that, you will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine.
