There ain't no secret button for "getting a girlfriend"! Girlfriend is a side product of being a social and civilized member of society. And that is it socialize and you'll learn all the answers sooner or later.God! I come here a few times a year and there is no change on this board. No wonder women hate incels. It hit me just now. The word "get/acquire", they are just an object. You don't see them as a human being. You may lie to yourself that you would love them pamper them, share their interest, value their opinion. And even if you got your chance you would f it up because all you would do is listen to your brain on how important is this woman-thing is to you. How it makes you feel "loved" and you'll do all this kindness as a subscription to keep it.And they know.
>>33875867Why is a homosexual giving advice on how to get women?
>>33875867That’s not the reason women hate nice guys. It’s much more lizard-brained than that. They come up with this cope later, that he isn’t REALLY genuine when he’s being nice. They tell themselves that he wasn’t being a nice guy for “pure” reasons. But the reality is that male niceness disgusts them on a primal animal level. It shows the male isn’t ready or tough enough to defend her from other males.If you view women as less than human, and treat them that way, you’ll never be disappointed.
>>33875867What you don't seem to understand is that women have objectified themselves in that way. Men would not see themselves as trying to "get" women if women did not demand that mentality from men. It's women who see themselves as objects of desire, a prize to be won. Women willfully created and continue that paradigm and why wouldn't they. It benefits them immensely.
>>33875867honestly yeah.For an incel REALLY dip in the pit, this is very very true saar.I now climbed out of tartarus and, I realized that a lot of my expectations about women come from the fact that they have a beautiful face, amazing smell, a vagina, a butthole, a sweet voice, everything that makes a woman.but when I'm around girls now, I've noticed my own biased desire of them and I got excited and got disappointed about.. 100 times, since March of this year. This developed a resilience in me... That at this point, I don't read into women being interested in me or being special, unless they actually make me feel like they are acting specially towards me.So yeah, quite literally the answer to this is to go out and interact with women and expose yourself to women, then your idea of women becomes normal and not every interaction is sexual or romantic or charged.Also I wouldn't blame men solely for this, It's a dynamic of the species like the other anon said. They get value, they get the downsides of getting so much attention too, we get no value, but get the upside of being able to win a prize and feel greatly rewarded for it.We inherently have to work for ithard!
>>33875867No it's not. Relationships are a side product of chancing upon someone who is attracted to you. The less you go out, the more unlikely this becomes. And yes, you have to "get" women. You can play it cool & casual initially, but at some point if you don't step up and make active efforts to romantically engage with her, she will get bored of you and drift away.
>>33875867blacks don’t see white women as human and they get to do whatever they want with them as teens while white men can only date them in their late 20s and up.
>>33875867I won't read (and this one is extremely banal) opinion pieces on an advice board. Is this the same clown posting so many opinion pieces today? Get a life!
>>33876464Mutts law
>>33875867i am a civilized member of society and do want to appreciate a special lady as a human being, though
>>33876622I see them on the sidewalks too
>>33875867>The word "get/acquire", they are just an object.Or you're being a retarded and disingenuous fagot trying to change the meaning and context to make it seem like it's not your fault at all. You seem like that cunt teacher that would tease the kid trying to go to bathroom that they didn't say "MAY I" and then gets upset at the kid for pissing themselves when you just needed to not be a fagot.
