So recently I got back into the dating scene after being out for 13 years and have been on dating apps like tinder and bumble. The experience is ok but there is so much that never knew was a thing, or at least how wide spread it was. QRD about me:>35>super tall>white>live in CaliforniaContinuing on, I see so many women who are in open marriages, looking for poly, ENM, etc. Back when I was in college you would never ever see anything like that. What is up with this? Any women on here that can tell me if the men are like this too? It seems so weird that there is a huge amount of women who either don't care about a legitimate relationship or are looking for a weird "situationship". Is it just because I'm in California? I get interest from women but everyone seems so flakey or weird that I don't want to waste me time on them. With work, daily life, friends and family I can't fathom how anyone has the time to be wasting with ENM stuff. Like a hookup is one thing but these people aren't really about that either. I dont get it. Is it just cope because no one wants to be with them so they use that as a "hook"?
>>33878885the new meta is to cuck your boyfriend apparently, keki think a lot of these women just want to try out new things and make sure it's worth staying with their hubby (pepe_sweat) but i am not too sure. i've never rlly encountered too many people like this
>>33878885bumoop
>>33878885Modern women and dating is like trying to figure out what color letter 7 smells like. Nothing make sense because it is insanity. Insanity is inherently non-logical and the more you try to understand it the more you yourself will go insane. Either get a passport and go to a an eastern Asian country or wait for sexbots. Those are your options as a white man.The more you try to rationalize a potential third option the deeper and deeper of a black pill rage you will fall into.
>>33879936>the new meta is to cuck your boyfriend apparently, kekLOL! OP here that is basically what my ex tried to do to me and why I am dating now.>Were together 13 years>Have two kids>days after our daughters first birthday party my ex started acting strange and wanted to sleep in separate rooms>a week later I caught her cheating with someone over a blink camera while I was at work>apparently, she had downloaded hinge a month or so before and really hit it off with some deadbeat who was going through a divorce and losing his kids and house>while I had no idea she was talking to this guy, she was saying that we too were separating and coparenting>she had been unemployed for half a year (was on maternity leave before that but got laid off when she came back to work) so I was the sole person supporting us>Im also the sole person who has paid our mortgage the entire time>she thought that she could move me out, have me as a free baby sitter after I came back from work so she could go out whenever she wanted, was going to move this guy into our house, and have me support all of them>she eventually took the kids and moved to her parents without any warning and now we are in a custody battle and battle over the condo>we were never married on paper so no alimony for hershe basically wrecked her life and put our kids future into turmoil. Im the least one affected by this entire situation ironically.
>>33881678>Were together 13 yearsthat's fucked up anon, i hate how women can just change their mind after committing themselves for so wrong. she must've been mentally ill or something, why would you leave a stable life like that?>daughters first birthday party my ex started acting strange and wanted to sleep in separate roomsooooof, so you were getting cucked from the start. that's so heartbreaking, glad your daughter is too young to remember this stuff>that we too were separating and coparentinglmao classic excuse>we were never married on paper so no alimony for heranon i hope you get your kids and condo back, don't leave them with some dirtbag who has his own kids. hopefully the court doesn't side with her lmao
