Any anons here who tasted real, unconditional love from a girl once and never again?I feel like I am way worse after having experienced it and knowing I will never have it again.I was massive introvert who didn't really want a relationship until I met this girl who actually cared about me. She broke up with me (not due to my fault) and I have been chasing that high again for more than a year now. And I am getting older, soon to be 30, which means dating suicide.I wish I never met her so I could still be just a wandering loner thinking "love is not a big deal" huffing copium.Now I just want to cry knowing the comfort and happiness that normies experience everyday I only got to taste it for a few months.
>>33879694Atleast you tasted it, failed normalfag.
>>33879694Since when was 30 considered dating suicide. Who told you this bullshit?Trade secret - dating gets easier the older you are. Women are a lot hungrier to find a stable, loving relationship and widen their spectrum of men they will consider. Socially and culturally there is a homogenisation that occurs post-30 because men and women begin to have a lot more in common - since they are now adults in the adult work and the trivial and tribal divisions that used to exclude eachother from seeming relevant have long since dissolved.Frankly most adults soften their vanity as they get older and increasingly seek comfort, connection and love as the priority over whatever trivial bullshit led their decision making before. It just stops being relevant to give a fuck about anything other than happiness. The experiment that was our 20s failed. We are all still single. We all just want a fucking hug because nobodies coming to save us and our parents are now dying (if we even had anything to miss in the first place)The sad thing about narratives like the one you are perpetuating is that you fail to see that you've got a lot of time to figure all this out. You have a lot of time to go off and become someone you respect and love and then give that away to someone else. You could probably find that now if you weren't in your own head about. Realistically are you really making the argument that over the next 5 years if we sent you out into the world, that there would be no hope? Fuck that dude. There's billions of people and you get the opportunity everyday to make billions of choices from micro to macro. From a statistical perspective the chances of you not finding love again if you wanted to are fucking close to zero. If we take your current position in space/time as point A, you can end up at an infinite number of final destinations within a year based off of your choices and their consequences. See the potential of this and get on with it.
Yeah it sucks. Time helps you cope, but the longing never leaves. I try to remember that you can only percieve your own version of being loved. Whatever someone actually feels about you is not only irrelevant to that high you talk of, but it's also fleeting with women, and they don't love you as deeply as you love them, and half the time don't understand the feelings they can elicit in a man. You only have yourself and you can't ask for anything from anyone they aren't willing to give.Process it. Cry when you need to. Talk to your support system if you can. Stop reminscing. The gradual memory loss over time is the only thing that will make it easier. I don't know about moving on. I can flirt with women but now it feels hollow and empty knowing I lost someone I was so close to. But maybe I only imagined that, too. One day maybe you and I will heal and be ready to move on. But if it's too late for another chance it may be wise to accept that and focus on othee things. t30yoGood luck brother
I think it's better to have had it and lost it than to have never had it. I think it's easier to know what could've been and to use the idea as something to better yourself.>>33879741 This anon gets it.
>>33879775that's kinda just some bullshit people say. The saddest dude is the dude who just barely got a taste of something. I suppose a whiff might be even worse so yeah it's better than that but just that. But not knowing what you don't have would be better of course.I feel bad for myself because even though I'm right, I try not to act like anyone who acts like me bc they are wrong. I got a whiff like none of you fucking know but we should not spend our days in comparison because statistically your friends will always have more friends than you, look it up. We all spend our days jealous of the richer instead of helping the poorer lmao
>>33879755>Women are a lot hungrier to find a stable, loving relationship and widen their spectrum of men they will consider.Oh wow so after she was ran through by 100 guys in her youth she decides to settle down with you "mr safe guy", got it.Future looks very promising.
>>33879694>knowing I will never have it again.you dont
>>33879785>But not knowing what you don't have would be better of course.Only if you were to live in a completely different planet, and not around other people who just get it by doing nothing.
>>33879801The deal is that when it gets to a certain point you leave the planet
>>33879792holy incel tears KEK
>unconditional love from a girl once and never again?how do you know she gave you unconditional love?
>>33880007You're not wrong.
>>33879792>t. bitch ass faggot ass punk ass bitch ass whiny retard
>>33879755All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>33879792If you are choosing to a wife a ran through woman that is your problem, not mine. Most regular women have had a few boyfriends and did a few hook ups inbetween. Nothing extravagant, nothing awful, nothing extreme or shameful. People who have healthy lives tend to acquire those kind of experiences as part of the journey.You should have been living life, like I was. Nobody is settling for me. Nor am I settling for anyone. People settle for happiness and someone who makes them feel whole? Weird fucking sentence. Healthy people don't frame everything through this weird inferior-trying-to-superior lens.>>33880122Most highschool / early 20s relationships end up being looked back on as a waste of a decade and end in divorce. People are constantly coming out of long term "i thought this was forever" relationships so there is always good, new stock on the market. There are also plenty of opportunities, you just have to create them for yourself. You get what you are due. Nothing else. If you ain't getting what you think you are due. It's a you problem for you to solve my friend. I feel bad coming here as someone who's obviously got a lot more resource. I'm not some broken and defeated type. I've done my turn of that. It's obviously bringing up a lot for the ones still in the trenches of low self worth and internet tropes about a world they don't bother to engage with.
