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when a date with a girl the other day and she mentioned she was really into theater and stuff and I remembered a few years ago I was really into that stuff and modelling and that. So I asked her if she wanted to be a model. She was really disgusted it seemed and was cold when I went off, (Also mentioned shes gonna get back with her ex next week lol) I am kind of sad really. I dont know how to talk to people. Or am I just hanging out with the wrong crowd who hangs on words I say like that? Honestly not sure what exact blunder caused the irreconcilable hostilities but oh well
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It was a social blunder, but one that anyone could have made. Evidently she was interested in theatre for "high art" reasons, and your question suggested it was just a kind of vanity
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you gave 0 relevant detail that could help us understand your situation but since you talk about having a "date" and you seem to have talked about very basic get to know each other stuff i'm gonna go on a whim and guess it was your first day with a girl you don't know much, probably from an app

and so in this case what caused the "irreconcilable hostility" is that like most girls on the apps she is not emotionally available and has at least tens of other men waiting in line for her therefore if you are not exactly what she wants she will immediately discard you

my advice is to uninstall the apps and work a bit on your social and emotional intelligence cause man, if you truly believe you were unsuccessful because you said 1 wrong thing and strangers on the internet will help you debug it without any context, you essentially have the social maturity of a 10 years old



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