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For context, I'm 18 years old, male, turning 19 in 3 months.

I didn't go off to college and I'm currently not in the workforce either. There's this girl (who is the same age as me), that I've known for 6 years now that I have a raging crush on. The problem is, she's off in a college that's 2 hours away from my town and I've become really depressed when thinking about things such as how at this time last year, she was still local, we were both still in HS, and how I feel as if there's nothing I can do when it comes to trying to build the friendship. I'd rather talk to her in person when it comes to bonding, not online. It's much better that way. But, like I was saying, it's really left me with extreme depression. Every day, I wish she was still local and didn't go off to a college or whatever. I feel ashamed to post this on all places but I choose /adv/, on 4chan. But whatever, if anyone has advice on how to cope, please reach out.
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>>33881798
2 hours is really not that far to see someone
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>>33881813
I forgot to add I don't have a driver's license, I have never taken the time to get one.
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>>33882166
Okay then get one? You freak out over what? A drivers license is not that big of a deal.
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>>33881798
you have bigger problems than a random girl that doesn't give a shit about you anyway
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>>33884726
It's not as easy as people say it is pal.
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>>33884736
What do you gain from being an asswipe online?
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>>33884923
Have you seen all my posts or something?
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>>33881798
>18
>hung up on one girl
you'll grow out of it

focus on yourself and women will flock to you (yes its an annoying paradox)
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>>33884965
I refuse to give up on her.
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>>33884965
>focus on yourself and women will flock to you (yes its an annoying paradox)
this simply isn't true unless by 'focus on yourself' you mean looks/vibemaxx and become wealthy
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>>33884910
But it is though. It's almost as if it is some from a huge strain. Why haven't you gotten one yet? That is your fault. I'm 26 but isn't as big a bitch as you clearly. I have a license but never really use it. Just bike to work and home. Might be 20 km or 35 km. Don't see me whining like a little bitch, even if I have to get up early and depart from home at around 3:45 in the morning. Curling child ass looking motherfucker. You don't know what a tough commute is, even if I put strap the concept to my foot, and and try to kick it through your thick skull. Bet your parent drives you everywhere. Classic diseased carbrain.
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>>33884980
bullshit
they're into confidence and competence
the field where you find those is up to you



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