TL;DR I slept with my roomate and now things are weird, whats next?I've been living with this woman for over three years now. I met her after posting an online ad because I was short on cash and needed help paying rent. We've never had any problems. In fact, I rarely see her at home since she's always working, some kind of bureaucrat or something, a complete workaholic. She barely talks to me, and our interactions are usually limited to a simple "hi" when we run into each other in the morning before work. I know she is my senior for 4 years but that's all i know about her.But about two weeks ago, she suddenly asked me if I wanted to have sex with her. It seems her "girlfriend" cheated on her and she wanted to spite her. I said yes, mostly because I'd been going through a rough patch and feeling pretty depressed. We didn't even use protection, which I know was stupid given the STD risk. I may live with this woman, but she's still basically a stranger to me. Anyway, this afternoon I was sitting around playing Xbox when she asked if we could talk. She told me last night she'd had a dream where she was pregnant, and when she woke up, she freaked out after realizing it was just a dream because she felt like she had "lost a baby that was never real."I don't know why she told me that or what it meant, but I could tell she expected something from me and I ended up hugging her. Im very confused, i don't know whats happening. Whats going on? Im not very experienced with women.
>>33882943she's clearly going through some shit and it sounds like you are too. Maybe try talking to her? Not about the dream pregnancy thing, just normal conversation.>dreamsdreams themselves don't mean anything but they can be affected by things stuck on people's minds... or at least mine are. It's kind of normal for a woman to be anxious about pregnancy after having sex with someone they don't know too well.
>>33882943rip to that friendshipnext time you'll want to avoid the urges and stay as friendsit's always better that way
who cares if its just a roommate. Are you so stupid that you don't know what you want out of her? a friendship, fuck buddy or a romantic one? oh and women are retarded and will hold grudges over something 'dream you' did. So just ask her what she wants out of u and go from theretldr communicate like adults
>>33882943Four years is not a big age gap. Christ this girl is throwing herself at you for god's sake man. Fuck her again and make her scream your name.
>>33882943Merry her jackass
a lot of you would get more pussy if men didn't have the habit of losing their shit after getting some. One of the biggest risk a woman faces is what happens AFTER she has intercourse with a man. Men become attached and possessive and dangerous.Just relax, take what is given and let it go.
>>33883569>just get over the strongest bonding act in the worldWomen really are psycho. Thanks for that glimpse
>>33883623For some men maybe but throughout human history most men would take and leave never to be seen again. Women learn to not attach. They also know when a man learns she is impregnated she is at a high risk of harm and/or abandonment because the man doesn't want the responsibility of a child. Its best for a woman to have no attachment and no emotional bond through intercourse and have an escape plan.
>>33882943Humans are social and in the end we always want to be part of a family. She's as confused as you and wants to finds if that can change with the closest person she has. Give it some time in your head, the problem here is what you really want from that relationship.
>>33883659>wespeak for yourself, breeder
