I finally, have been given 1 year to life- acute myeloid leukemia. I will ask a bunch of different topics, i'm ESL so my prose is messy...I'll just ask bullet-point type questions so its clear.>Should I really plan my own funeral? Music choice, slideshow, photos, shrine arrangements(?) etc? or, that makes it more painful and I should just do an austere, solemn event?>Since I will literally die: Should I "let it out all out" and confess to crushes, curse and abuse (verbally) former enemies, try out every legal possible pent-up desire?>I have two items from a Bucket List which are : meet a celebrity (I have a short list of possible ones; only one is ok), and pay for a "femdom beating up" session--just a woman kicking and punching me whilst wearing some type of costume like police or so on--Are these so utterly retarded I should, just forget about them altogether? Any additional advice is welcome.
>>33883716Must admit I'm not much for that whole "live it to the fullest kind of lifestyle, just because of death. In death nothing really matters. Would focus more on actually giving your family a good chunk of change. But sure spend some money on that spanking kinda thing if that is hot. Confessing is kinda cringe. Don't do that.
>>33883716>Funeral PlanningMore painful for who? You will be dead. You are in a position to have control over your final contribution to the universe. If I was in your position I would at the least pick a song, a few photos and maybe write or record some final words. A thankful, grateful final hour with the people who cared enough to show up - that skips my family needing to figure out what the fuck to do.>Letting it all outDesires, bucket list stuff - yes. Cursing people out, admitting crushes etc - no. These are your last days on Earth, commit fully to dying having done a bunch of quests, side missions and mini games on the way out of the day. But fuck dumping a bunch of baggage on people - achieves nothing and a year from now won't matter. Only exception is if you want to make peace with someone - to find closure, to resolve an old argument. Someone who might appreciate having worked something out with you before you died and could never have that conversation.>Bucket List specificDude. Do what the fuck you want. The more retarded the better. You will be dead in a year. If getting beat up by a femdom is something that matters to you, go for it.>Additional AdviceReligion and philosophy can be helpful. My advice is to accept and think about your death intensely a few times, accept it, feel it out, do not fear the reaper.
>>33883736I'm not good at being one, but Im a catholic. I do hope I can just start attending daily mass 3,2 months before the estimated departure date. Now I go on sundays, I always wished I could be a devoted church-goer and go more than the bare minimum.I want to eat junk food as much as health\digestive system allows, I never was much of an american in that regard (Im not american, Im using it as a noun for gluttony!)full KFC bucket for myself, breakfast of coca cola and sour gummies, so on.
>>33883746Do it. Enjoy your life my friend.
>>33883716Funerals are for the comfort of the living, not the dead. Let your loved ones have the choice of how they want to say farewell.
>>33883716I won't read made-up threads by aspiring but very mediocre soap opera script writers.
>>>/mlp/
>>33883716Read classical theology or anything you like that gives you comfort because if you do your consciousness will arise and you will be able to ride on unicorns or anything that is determined as joyous. If you're going to go all the way out I'd personally pick mommydom over hard femdom but you do you.
>>33883716Well, at least your death is coming soon.
>>33883716why don't you consider fasting?
>>33883716That's tough and makes me sad to her. This life is nothing but illusion. Try pick up the Quran and contemplate on the verses from the magnificent lord of the universe (Allah) Al-Mustawrid reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “What is the parable of this worldly life, in comparison to the Hereafter, but one of you dipping his finger in the sea? Let him see what he brings forth.”
>>33889163Yes try and brainwash OP with your bullshit fantasy.
>>33887816yeah but cheese you missed today will never be unmissed
>>33883716You got some pretty good advice here. I would just add when it comes to the funeral.planning dont fixate on that or overdo it. I liked the suggestion about maybe picking some music and some final words, pictures.But the funeral is the celebration of the deceased life by the living. There's going to be parts that your family will want to organize and do, because its really for them.My best friend passed away with Ewing's Sarcoma. I miss him.
>>33889773YOU'LL BE FUCKING DEFENESTRATED
die
>>33883716How is anyone supposed to give you advice?Anyone who has lived out the last year of their life would be dead and unable to give you advice.Personally, I would appreciate the little things in life and make peace with the next stage of my journey.They say when cockroaches are gassed they start eating as much as possible. Don't be a roach. Choose a higher path.
>>33883716You've got enough time to plan out a silly funeral that goes a long way in people's memories. You should definitely do it in style.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oEygbbZK-u0
Sorry you're sick, I hope you get a good remission.
>>33883716>and abuse (verbally) former enemiesIf I were in your shoes, I would seek to make amends instead of enemies. Aside from any religious angle >>33883746 it will be the last time you ever speak to any of these people again. The last thing they will remember of you is this final interaction. If you leave this earth as a bitter man, you will be remembered as a bitter man for the rest of your legacy. Being hated in death is much worse than being hated in life for this reason. A bitter man in death is hated forever through those he hated in life, and his legacy is worth less than the dirt he lies in.Make amends, and forgive those that have hurt you. You’ll never get another opportunity.Tempus fugit. Memento Mori.
>>33883746>>33883716I'm sorry you're going through this, anon.>femdom beating up" sessionWhile not exactly the same, I lost my virginity in a similar context over 10 years ago, and I'm not being hyperbolic when I say I regret it every single day.I hope that you start going to mass regularly, and perhaps confession as well. I sincerely believe you will live again.>O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?
>>33887816>>33892245Is barneyfag still active or is this basically a devoted cult of personlity and/or a bot
>>33883716If you don't have any inheritance to leave, research your country's relevant laws about how debts are settled after death. You might plausibly be able to rack up exorbitant amounts of debt to either do whatever you want or buy a bunch of shit for your family.
>>33883716Just get cremated cheap and spend your money on whatever you want. Let it sll out but try Internal Family Systems Therapy before going nuts. No get that celebrity and prostitute.
>>33883716>leukemiaDo a parasite cleanse. Turpentine works the best:https://i.4cdn.org/wsg/1760679448473739.mp4You'd might want to first do the liver flush to prepare:>fullhttps://files.catbox.moe/ous9fp.pdf>tltrhttps://healthrevolutionsolution.com/pages/7-day-liver-cleanseAlso look into the panacea molecule:>Documentarieshttps://rumble.com/vdey7t-the-universal-antidote.htmlhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h57eG1LJlD4>Testimonialshttps://t.me/theuniversalantidotehttps://mmstestimonials.co/https://www.bitchute.com/channel/dA96UT86nwTk/https://dioxitube.com/>DIYhttps://rumble.com/vus0iz-getting-started-with-chlorine-dioxide-in-48-mins.-no-fear-or-confusion.htmlhttps://pdfroom.com/books/mms-health-recovery-guide-book/bXgPXbjbgevhttps://andreaskalcker.com/en/cds-protocols/https://mmsinfo.org/>Bleach?https://odysee.com/@kalckerInstitute:f/0.-ClO2-+-HCl---DEU>Herxheimer Reactionhttps://rumble.com/vkf18d-why-you-feel-sick-after-starting-chlorine-dioxide-and-why-you-shouldnt-stop.html
>>33883716If this book isn't bullshit you aren't in for anything bad: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/104979.Journey_of_SoulsDon't plan your funeral unless you want to, that's kind of gay and sounds like busywork.
Knowledge of your own death is heavy. Funerals are for the people who aren't dead so there's not much point planning it. Probably better just leave it in the hands of the funeral director, nobody normally plans their own funeral, best it stays that way. What should you do with your last year? Well because of lukemis your quality of life will fall quickly, you'll be almost dead for months, so whatever you want to do, do it straight away. Go to Paris, see Europe if you've got any money. Enemies? Put it this way, i never even think about the enemies i had in my 20s, are these really important relationships? Maybe you won't live long enough to forget about them but if you did, like most people do, you just wouldn't care. Not worth. Yea, tell your crush you like her. Maybe it happens, maybe it doesn't. Fuck it, you ball. If you want to pay a prostitute to beat you up then go ahead. I don't get it, but you could do that next Friday so why the fuck not. If you want to do it, $500. Meeting a celebrity, yea, you can do it. 50% calling their agent, the right agent, and 50% being in their immediate vicinity in a Cafe or whatever. It's a fan request. "Hey X I heard that you're Ys agent, I've got lukemia and really want to thank Y for making X if he's/ she's in LA some time"
Also with crushes, say less. Tell them that you'd like to spend more time with them. It carries the same weight, and you avoid looking like a sperg spilling your guts to some women you hardly know. It's like asking someone out on a date, but it's heavier, because they know you already like them. With a date it's sort of speculative. Maybe it's too heavy, strategically not ideal, too much pressure. But in your position, you'd do it. Take her to Paris.
