heyy. i’m russian (24). he is american (28.)i live in russia (rostov-on-don), hes from florida. fyi he lives alone and has a stable job, good social life and is independent, earns enough moneywe started talking a few days and we really like each other. i developed feelings for him and he to me. but i’m still stuyding in russia and he wants me to come to him, be a house wife, stop studying (and working) and just be with him and bear his children instead.i love how he thinks and genuinely, i want that as well. our values and look onto life are the same and hes basically also controlling, demanding, takes the lead which i like. but i’m not sure what to do because i invested so much for this degree, but at the same time i want to stop and just live with him instead.i dont know what to do really, i’m in a big dilemma. he said he wants me beside him and that i can study at a university in america.
>>33883971He's a pathetic fucking loser and youre an idiot
>>33883975why?
>>33883971I would like to think this isn't a larp.But you're asking 4chan about a ldr between 2 warring nations on the other side of the earth from one another, based off of a "relationship" that hasn't been loaded yet.
>>33883981well, obviously but we called many times and i even spoke to my friends about him, and i dont care about nationalities, as he does.
>>33883979If he wasn't a loser he could get a girl that's not on the other side of the worldWhy do you think he had to look all the way in Russia for a womanAll these long distance chumps are like thatBottom end busters who cant do better
>>33883981>2 warring nationsAmerica is literally a russia's vassal (puppet) state at this point.
if you're planning to move over, he'll manipulate you to quit your job anyway. So what use is the degree. He wants you to be solely reliant on him without possibility of a job and no friends in a foreign land. Thats how he stays in control. Since you're a woman (retard), go for it
>>33883971If you have never met him then it is nothing. There is no relationship. You're the woman in this interaction so it is your prerogative to have HIM visit YOU so you can get to know each other. You're not obliged to him in any way. On the other hand, if you just want to use marriage to escape your lovely country and people then your motive is not honourable.
>>33884106>still reads romance novels from the 1800KEK
>>33883971Do plans to continue your education in america if you want to follow him, or dump him. You can't put all your stakes on a random guy, you're staking your own livelihood in an age where everyone flipflops relationships. If he's the one he would understand or make the arrangements.
>>33884133nga getting mad dr zhivago aura from this
>>33884133>>still reads romance novels from the 1800>KEKOkay, childless dreg.
>>33884183congratulations Zhangjeet, you can outproduce rats and cockroaches LMAO
>>33884015Go be retarded elsewhere
>>33884183Fun fact:The entire literary genre of Romance was just escapism for the Burgeois elite of tha time. As they were all in marriages arranged by their families for political and economical reasons. So basically simping from afar for M'lady was the most action they ever could get under threat of being declared Pariahs and losing theirt sweet lifestyle if they ever actually did anything.You're reading 1800s housewife masturbation material and think its real KEK
>>33883971you just met him a few days ago, quitting your degree and moving to America for him is too early. Talk to him first, preferably finish your degree. If he makes money he can always fly you out to visit him for the Winter / Summer>>33884003>Why do you think he had to look all the way in Russia for a womanhave you considered the possibility that it might not be that he can't get laid in America, but that he might just be sick of American girls and want a slavic girlfriend instead?Go to eastern europe, anon, and hang out with the girls there. You'll never want to date a western woman again. There are men, there are western women, and then there are eastern women. They are five times as femenine and beautiful and 'lady like' than western girls. I can get laid in my western country, I have dabbled in dating here, I've been in somewhat of a relationship here, but after being with a few girls in ukraine, I know I can do better than dating girls from the uk, so why would I choose to date a uk girl when I can date (and am dating) a ukrainian girl? >>33884015you misspelt Israel
