im 19f and i'm getting worse and worse self esteem. the thing is i'm still a relatively confident, maybe popular person, and i'm confident in my looks and personality half the time, but the other half of the time seems to be getting worse. the anxiety is increasing and im getting slightly worried too about this
>when the likes and retweets stop droppingyou're a woman, so your "confidence" comes from others externally. When the attention stops, the anxiety rises. This will become worse and worse as you reach menopause. Either go full attention whore or find people who love you for who you are. >i'm confident in my looks and personalityyour personality isn't interesting judging by this thread
>>33883994Are you the girl that posts here every month?Anyway you're not confident because you seek validation from others. Confident people don't give a shit about how others judge them, that's the differenceYou can be popular or a loser, if you care about what others think of you you'll be anxious, if not then you're confident. Just rate yourself realistically and stick to that evaluation. I'm also 95% certain that you have fake friends (don't get anxious over it, read what I wrote above).Also stop trying to fit in/trying to meet expectations set by whoever/letting peer pressure affect you. These are games for slaves, you win by not playing
