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Knocked up a black girl a few years back and have been dealing with the consequences ever since. Was down bad and needed to hit something. She was attractive enough and made herself available. Was seriously considered an abortion, but I couldn't bring myself to do it.

Do I stick around and raise it and hope it doesn't become a gang-banger? Or do I just skip town and cut my losses?

picrel
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>>33884278
Depends whether you actually have the balls to help raise the child. If you don't want him to become a gb then actually parent him and set rules and academic expectations. It's wild to me that people just decide to fuck with the possibility of bringing a whole new person into the world. Personally I would have just gone the abortion route even if she was apprehensive about it, no reason to pollute your bloodline. But now that you're stuck with the consequences maybe actually raise your child.
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>>33884278
That depends. How much of a human being are you?
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>>33884278
Ok yes but where's the pic of her?
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>>33884278
>call blacks deadbeat dads
>see OP
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>>33884303
Like I said, I was down BAD. Pure instinct. Couldn't abort it out of guilt. Problem is I absolutely despise it.

>>33884305
I consider myself a good person.
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i hope he grows up and chimps out on you
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>>33884316
And you don't feel guilty for saying you despise the life that you created?
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>>33884321
It's already having major behavioral issues. Yelling, screaming, fighting, etc. I just use the Xbox as a way to babysit it.

>>33884323
I feel almost a sense of disassociation with it. Like I know it's mine, but at the same time, I feel like it it is not.
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>>33884352
cut losses unless the mom is hot and you have the genes to turn him into an nba star
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>>33884352
>Yelling, screaming, fighting
Those are all manageable, be glad he is not on the heavy side of the spectrum. XBox does not replace a parent but I guess you already knew that. Where is the mother in all of this?
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>>33884368
She's around here and there, but he is primarily in my care.
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Parent your kid. You decided to bang and now it's on you. Is the mother around for him? Either way, just raise it and set it yo good expectations.
>>33884352
>I feel almost a sense of disassociation with it. Like I know it's mine, but at the same time, I feel like it it is not.

That's what happens when you bang a random chick.
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>>33884388
It's destroying my life. The social ramifications alone suck bad. I get weird looks and comments. I feel there is no hope.
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>>33884278
well, you created it, you need to be the responsible father and raise it, despite it having its little niggerisms.
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>>33884384
holy cuck LMAO
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>>33884392
Growing up in that kind of single parent care is bad for a kid. Seriously just parent your kid. Try getting the mother involved, (although I doubt she's competent,) and avoid that gangbanger route if it's even possible. You are not "babysitting," deal with the consequences of your actions. I would've had her abort long ago but it's too late for that now.
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>>33884384
at least this niglet seems to have a decent father and at least 50% human genetics. you can make this work. but your life is over dude lmao you absolute retard
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>>33884447
>decent father
OP is clearly not decent you worthless white pedo
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>>33884434
>>33884419
Why not just bail and call it quits? Again, based on the behavior already, it's likely its done and over with.
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>>33884479
because it is not the right thing to do. it will not be good for the kid.
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>>33884453
is calling someone a pedo the new calling someone a nazi? do you really want that word to lose its meaning too?
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>>33884453
the vast majority of people would have been long gone already in that situation. like the kid's mother. OP seems to care. you're right too, the most decent thing would have been to abort
and off we go with the misplaced accusations.. you can breathe right? wouldn't want to be the cause of your fictitious shortage of breath
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As a black man. This thread is fucking hilarious.
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>>33884502
What do I do?
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>>33884352
>Yelling, screaming, fighting, etc.
That is not exclusive to black kids. That is just toddlers.
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>>33884526
kill yourself
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>>33884543
No, he's chimping out.

>>33884547
Stay mad
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>>33884526
Stop calling your kid an "it" you fucking racist retard.
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This thread is fake and gay.
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>>33884557
try to get him interested in normal people stuff, perhaps playing an instrument, appreciation for more emotional and intellectual music genres, classic movies, board games or other educational hobbies for a proper development of the child
if you leave it up to modern media and the people he will hang out with at high school it's already a lost cause. if you're gonna do it do it properly
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>>33884566
That's what it is. It's hardly human.
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>>33884557
burn the coal, pay the toll LMAOOO
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Thread is repost fakeslop. someone check archives.
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>>33884607
Racist fuck. You need to have your kid taken by CPS.
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Op should kill himself unironically. Humanity will benefit
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>>33884316
A good person dies not abandon his child.
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>>33884305
3/5s
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>>33884352
>it
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>>33884502
it's absolutely insane seeing these guys think a mixed race baby raised by a white father is going to be accepted in the ghetto gangbang life

you can tell this board is overrun with Hungarians and thirdies who have zero context for American culture outside of hood movies
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>>33884494
a man who refuses to raise a child he created is unironically worse than what most people get convicted of being a pedophile for



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