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So apparently women think being in a relationship is going to make them miserable. That's what one of them told me when I asked them why they don't want a relationship.

How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?
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she's right. you should give up
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>>33885514
they don't. they think being in a relationship WITH YOU would make them miserable. any time you are confused about a weird statement they are making about relationships or intimacy, just add WITH YOU to the end and you'll figure it out. there is nothing you can do. move on
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>>33885534
>WITH YOU
They don't even know me. How the fuck would they know?
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>>33885514
thats because women sabotage each other. they make other women believe that so they are single and miserable and think being in a relationship is the real source of unhappiness
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>>33885514
So you're forming your opinion on what entire half of the population thinks based on what a single person told you
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>>33885550
They know you enough to know that you're putting yourself into other people's affairs, asking why they don't want to be in a relationship.
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>>33885572
Are you trolling me?
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>>33885578
I don't even know what to say to this.
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>>33885578
That's literally what you said, man.
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>>33885589
>>33885593
Yeah, you're trolling me. I'm putting you on ignore. Not taking your shit bait.
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>>33885514
>I talked to one girl and she said something, why are ALL WOMEN LIKE THIS?
The problem is you're retarded.
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>>33885552
This is what I'm starting to believe. They see other women unhappy and so they think they'll have the same experience.
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I once had the misfortune to work with a man as annoying as op. He kept trying to ask me questions that sound like they're from some self improvement book. "What would you do if you won the lottery" etc. He ignored when I signaled him that I wasn't interested in talking, tried to get me to play a stupid video game with him and showed me pictures he took of food when it was clear he doesn't know how to cook. If I won the lottery I'd stop going to work just to avoid coworkers like him. Thankfully he quit pretty early on.

I'm happily married now.
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>>33885696
Your shit bait is too obvious, troll.
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>>33885514
do you want those types of women? women that think this probably get all their opinions from instagram or tiktok. just get a normal girl that only cares about makeup and baking or whatever
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>>33886552
>only cares about makeup and baking
Is that what they call the trad wife?
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>>33885603
Ho wthe fuck does this question even come up in a conversation?
If I was a girl and some guy started asking me pointed questions, I'd assume hes olgiing a relationship with me. Which is absolutely weird on a lot of levels.
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>>33886644
A chad wife?
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>>33889052
A trad wife.
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>>33885514
>How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?
by demonstrating that you won't make them miserable, dumbass
it's annoying to deal with but yeah, the solution should be obvious
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>>33890452
I'm not sure if you're aware of this, probably not because you're a child, but you can't force people to date you. That's not how the world works, honey.
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>>33885550
You're likely physically ugly. Women hate being in relationships with ugly men.
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>>33891551
This was chat. They hadn't even seen my face.
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>>33885514
Just don't put women in first place, or tenth place, or on the list at all. And you'll see that your satisfaction with life attracts women like moths to a flame.
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>>33885514
This is what happens when she's burned too through many cocks. She loses her ability to pair bond, and your neediness is only going to result in conflict.
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I'm gonna tell you like it is. The average man makes women miserable for a multitude of reasons. Main ones being that they're lazy mommas boys who want to be coddled, they're clingy and obnoxious, or they don't give a fuck about the women they're with outside of the sex. If you want a girlfriend you need to actually befriend girls so they can get to know your true character. If you're independent, well spoken, educated, and have your shit together, then youre fine.

Very few women have ever been in a relationship that improved their life in any way. If you can change that, then you have a chance.
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>>33892144
>Very few women have ever been in a relationship that improved their life in any way.
Are you fucking kidding me? Really? That's crazy if that's true. That's wild.
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>>33892228
not trying to rage bait here or anything. honestly, this is good news for men because with minimal self improvement they can be in the top 1% kek. so many men are just obsessed with humiliating their girlfriends and treating them like mothers. i really don't know what it's about. i think it's a masculinity thing.
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>>33885514
They say all sorts of shit but are unable to implement due to lack of self control. If a guy she liked wanted her she’d date him. No guys she’s into are talking to her which means she’s a failure of a woman, sorry girlie.
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wanna know why no one is dating? because you all fucking suck. every last one of you. gender, race, sexual preference all mean jack shit. it's because you're all schizo fucks who have demoralization propaganda assaulting you from all sides every waking moment. people like this cannot find true common ground. it's that simple. you all fucking suck.
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>>33892228
>Really?
Lol no. Why would you take relationship advice from KHV autists?
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>>33892707
kek I dunno
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>>33885514
>don't want to be in a relationship at all
>not ready for a relationship
>incompatible because [insert random arbitrary reason unrelated to you]

kek. for all incels, virgins and unexperienced men out there: when a woman says this, this means she's not attracted to you, period.

>before they even meet me
don't worry, when a man who has the looks and the game required comes along, she'll change her mind
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>>33893853
cool story bro
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>>33893853
>with you with you blarg with you
same retarded regurgitated mindlessly useless advice repeated over and over again by larping chad troglodytes
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>>33890921
>but you can't force people to date you.
NTA but it's a good thing they didn't actually say that, my illiterate friend.
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>>33893979
>NTA
lol... lmao even
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>>33891551
This, women who’d rather be beatup by a giy who has a nice face/dick than to be in a boring relationship they cannot brag about!
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>>33885514
most women don't have that attitude and you're letting what she said to you get to you too much
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>>33887663
>If I was a girl and some guy started asking me pointed questions, I'd assume hes olgiing a relationship with me.
You think way too highly of yourself, may as well be a woman.
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>>33885550
>They don't even know me. How the fuck would they know?
Literally everyone in this thread figured you out by your first pathetic post. Women will do the same in the first few seconds of you opening your mouth in person.
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>>33893853
My whole life I’ve been rejected and being told she’s not ready for a relationship was my most common reply.
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>>33892228
When men enter marriages with women, they live longer, healthier lives. Women encourage men to be more social, go to the doctor, and help men with household duties and chores. Women don't see as much improvement, a man choosing to help take care of children or do chores like cooking is already impressive.
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>>33894354
You don't know shit nigga shut your dumb ass up lmao pathetic troll
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>>33894443
Your whole life? Dang, nigga. That's awful.
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>>33885514
I swear this is just another psyop, it's unreal that there is a new antinatalist trend every other week or so.
You don't want a girlfriend whose personality revolves around these bullshit online trends, and thankfully not everyone is like this, just look for women outside of discord. And look for ones with real hobbies, not the ones whose pastime is scrolling.
Ironically, the most normal girls I've met so far were art majors. They just have mental issues, but at least they're racist and keep themselves occupied with painting or whatever so they don't have time for this shit.
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>>33895525
>They just have mental issues, but at least they're racist...
lol come again?
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>>33895441
yes I even tried asking out women I don’t find attractive and they still stood me up. I’m tall, great hygiene, great teeth, not fat, have a decent job and my own place and car. Can’t even get a coffee date.
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What a disheartening thread. I think I need a cold shower or something, I dunno.
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>>33897191
That's fucked up.

>>33897206
Same.



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