This story has 2 parts so will post second below this:#1 - Went to a rave last night by myself. I was having a lot of fun with a group and I found myself with a group and we were jumping around and enjoying ourselves for hours.Main guy from the group asked for my insta as we took some group photos so I added him back later, and asked for the photos. This morning he unfollowed me without sending the photos. Why is this the case?
>>33886741he sobered up and realized that you are way below his social status. Its like when drunk guys have sex with super ugly women
#2 - At the rave, I was earlier just dancing by myself when the girl near me starts dancing with me. We had a lot of fun together until the crowd moved and we lost each other. Later on in the night she saw me again and started waving to get my attention, we hung out for a little bit and then she said she was leaving so I asked for her IG.As it was a public account and we had mutuals, I sent this text so she knew it was me, was it the wrong thing to send? It’s been 12 hours and she hasn’t added me back yet
>triple textprobably because you sound like a normie's idea of a gay person
>>33886741he honestly just sounds like a dick, I wouldn't overthink it; don't let this ruin raves for you
>>33886766Yeah it’s fine, I got better things to do in my life then worry.Also I doubt the other girl will follow me back so if nothing in a few days I’ll just unfollow
>>33886741I won't read multi-episode sagas or attached documents. Learn to be succinct in stating your problem.
>>33886757too strong bro, don't kiss her ass. Keep it casual, just add her, wait for her to add you back then send a really simple message. As for the dude, don't triple text. You want to be a cool guy, not desperately looking for friends. And while we've all been there and understand how it feels, its also necessary to keep your cool and not openly show your neediness. Think of it as impolite. Like you don't yell that you need to piss through a crwoded upscale restaurant even if you do need to piss.
>>33886741>>33886757Congratulations, you're learning that people you meet in "night life" culture (bars, concerts, raves, indie shows, dance clubs) are just flakes 90% of the time and the connections you make are fleeting and shallowNormal, well-adjusted people have friends they go with to these and don't need to try to make friends with random strangers. I'm not trying to make a dig at you, I used to love going to raves and going out by myself but the older I got the more I realized it just sucked and it was kind of a waste of time. Especially because yeah I'd get people's contact info then never hear from them again.Don't get me wrong, I still go to concerts or shows or even raves/dance parties, but it's always as part of a plan with other people. I recommend the same to you, start building solid connections with people during the day who aren't drunk and high off euphoric substances when you meet them.
>>33887691On #1 - I couldn’t care less anymore ah well, would’ve like the photos but should just take them on my own phone next time Update on #2 - lowkey need to stop overthinking about every little thing
>>33886752This is accurate
