A few months ago, my gf broke up with me. Her primary reason was that I just had "nothing to say" sometimes. I should've pressed her further to ask what she meant exactly but if I had to guess, she may have been referring to my inability to help her with the emotional issues that she had been having. I tried to help her, I opened up, told her I'm there for her, tried to hug her but she rejected or mocked any attempt I made at consoling her. On one hand I feel like she did this to herself and is too delusional to realize that she was the problem but maybe I am emotionally stunted, maybe I don't know how to deal with other people's emotions. What should I have done differently? I should probably fix this soon if this is the case, I'll be 25 soon and the pool of decent women will evaporate before I know it if I don't change what I need to
>>33888096You ever watch people interacting with dogs? Your ex wanted you to do that with her she wanted to be your dog. Be happy when you see her, ask her questions about her day, listen, make connections between things she said, purposely get things wrong to see her upset.Remember women are children and treating them as you would want to be treated will cause problems.
>>33888116I feel like I did a lot of those things. I'm a good listener but maybe I suck at making connections between things she was saying. Idk, a 3.5 year relationship to end over all of this is still kind of unreal to me all these months later>Remember women are children and treating them as you would want to be treated will cause problems.This is where I fucked up
>>33888096>Not sure if I need to change>I should've pressed her further to askI won't read wishy-washy, mediocre NPC brain, or clingy and needy threads.
