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>I’m a man 25 going to be 26 in a month
>I work as a dishwasher for a restaurant that’s owned by this university
>live with my grandparents and younger sister
>didn’t go to college
>Had an ambition of enlisting the military but couldn’t because of bipolar and autism
>never had a girlfriend
Does all this make me a loser, what are your opinions, and what’s the best advice you can give me?
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>>33888473
No, you're just a regular guy, not a loser. Sucks about not being able to enlist, though. Have you thought of anything else you'd like to do?
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>>33888482
Well I’ve been wanting to start a writing career and so far I only written one short story but procrastination has been lingering over me and I’ve been trying to decide what my next story will be but I’ve been reading a lot fiction and still learning the craft
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>>33888482
And also I think one day I might start a business
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>>33888508
>>33888516
No reason not to do both. Probably better to do both, actually, writing is fun but very rarely makes any money
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>>33888473
does your work let you take classes or use the gym or anything at the college for free? activities and events that are open to the community? take full advantage of being in a college environment while you are relatively young
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>>33889122
I’m a temporary employee they won’t give me free college unless I’m full time
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>>33888473
It's not that special, pretty average. Apart from that of course
>bipolar and autism
How much does that affect your life?
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>>33888473
I won't read nigger threads.
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people like you are meant to deliver my Uber Eats

i'll be sure to grab my girlfriend's ass when your incel ass come knocking at my door, and no, I'm not going to tip.
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>>33889483
Everyday on the autism part I have struggle with communication, sensory issues and repetition since the day I was born I also deal with depression, intrusive thoughts, and meltdownsI take medications for bipolar and also for high blood pressure but the thing about my bipolar medication is that I experience drowsiness, dizziness, and increased appetite I causes my weight to ascend I didn’t get diagnosed with bipolar until I was 22 and was prescribed high blood pressure until recently
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>>33888473
You sound like an oyster who latches on to whatever opportunity he finds and refuses to leave it. In a relationship you'd be overly clingy and needy. In the past I'd advocate leaving everything behind and striking out by road rail or plane, but that approach can easily lead to ruin if you are not capable of solving problems dynamically, as they arise.



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