I did. Unfortunately, she was taken. We were friends and texted for a short while. As I got to know her, I discovered we had lots in common. She had a similar personality to me. Introverted and quiet, but once she opened up to you she'd be fun and flirty. Similar values. Good taste in music. Same hobbies. She was big into gaming and had her own computer rig setup which looked sick. No social media outside discord. And she was just incredibly beautiful, like insanely gorgeous all around. I still remember her voice and smile.Long story short, her boyfriend didn't want her texting me any longer, and our friendship quickly fizzled out. Nothing bad happened otherwise, like I never confessed my feelings to her or anything, but whenever I'd see her from then on she would act cold and disinterested towards me. And, well, that's how things ended. Perhaps it was for the best because I fell hard for her, and I still haven't been able to shake these feelings long after, no matter how untagible they always were. Last I heard, she moved far away and planned to get married.Can anyone else relate? How do you cope with this, and did you ever move on? I haven't been able to find anyone else like her.
>>33888997Yes. I had a blonde coworker from 5 years ago who was beautiful and funny. She told me to add her contact on her last day and I asked her out later, but she did the excuse rejection thing and then I tried to ask her out once more later and she ghosted me, lol.>How do you cope with thisEh, I was already pretty jaded and I only ever had 1 crush in my life when I was in the 4th grade. Nothing changed. I just cope with escorts and the occasional hook-ups.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OVHnWyDmdw
>>33888997you got alpha'd out lol>>33889013you got played to boost her own self esteem KEK
>>33888997I met her on the metro. I never spoke to her, I don't remember her appearance well, but she was one of the most beautiful women I've seen in my life. I really wish I'd spoken to her, I think she had her phone in her hand?She wasn't really even speaking to anybody. She stood over near the exit, she was happy. I remember her dress, it wasn't the most formal wear, and I wish, I wish, I could've heard her voice. I regret not having spoken to her, which I should've, I was only over at the country for a bit.I almost missed my stop because I'd been thinking about her, it was honestly love at first sight, but I hate that I'll probably never meet her again, we never exchanged a word, she might've not seen me in the first place.
>>33888997I had a similar situation once but I was the taken girl. Bf distanced himself from the guy (I only interacted with him when it was us three) perhaps because he sensed the attraction/infatuation, and that was it. I never considered monkeybranching even a bit because I have a bit of self-respect at least, but it is still an experience that leaves you feeling empty and melancholic afterwards, even if you know it wasn't meant to happen and would've never happened.
>>33888997Yes. Explored more and found another "dream girl" lol. I have two types now. Keep going.
>>33892827Thanks bro, we're all gonna make it. Were they both friendly?
>>33888997Went to an outdoor public concert event in a city with thousands of people hanging out enjoying the summer. Was checking out some random table with some stuff for sale, slowly circling around it. As I get halfway around, I notice a girl doing the same exact thing on the opposite side of the table. We both look up at each other at the exact same time and make eye contact. We smile at each other and have a cute laugh at the coincidence of the moment. She was the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. A little on the short side, medium blonde hair, fit body in a gorgeous tight blue dress, perfect proportions, and the most perfect adorable smile. I am speechless, trying not to stare. She wanders off, looking over her shoulder at me, still smiling. A few minutes later I am having a drink with my friends, telling them about her. Suddenly, there she is again just 15 feet away. I can't miss this opportunity so I walk right up to her before I even know what I am doing. I've never been this nervous in my entire life. I talk to her for about a minute, asking where she is from, who she is here with, what her plans are for the rest of the day/night. She is so friendly and charming and it feels so amazing to just be next to her. I start to feel the anxiety coming back, so I take my leave while I am still making a good impression, promising to find her later. I am in the fucking clouds. The whole rest of the day I am barely paying attention to my friends, just thinking about her. We end up at a bar nearby when it's starting to get dark. Have a drink or two with my friends. It's crowded, so we agree to check out another bar across the street. On the way out the door, there she is again by the door. I stop directly in front of her, completely lost for words. Her eyes light up and she gives me a huge smile, and reaches out and touches the tip of my nose with her finger and continues walking past me with her friends. I follow my friends to the bar across the street...
>>33888997>>33895506I'm starting to feel like an idiot because I should have stayed, I should have said something, I just get paralyzed by her beauty. The second bar is dead and boring, so after one drink we decide to check out a third bar around the corner from the first one. It is a huge German beer hall style bar with hundreds of people inside. I get a table with my friends and we order a mini-keg for the table and are just having a good time. We've been there for 20-30 minutes when I look up, and at the table directly in front of ours there she is again with all her friends, just as beautiful as ever. Almost like she has a glowing aura around her. I have no idea what to do. Does she know I am here? How long has she been there? She's not facing me. I down my beer to try to gain some courage to go talk to her again. I tell my friends, look there she is again, that's the one. I talk with them a few more minutes, trying to calm down and think of what to do and what to say. I decide to get up to go to the bathroom to piss and collect myself before going back to her table and sitting next to her. There is only one bathroom, a new concept for me, but I try not to think about it. I have a plan and I need to stay focused. I turn the corner into the bathroom... and there she is. Making out with another guy. I am crushed. I piss and go back to my friends and am miserable for the rest of the night. I get shit faced to drown my sorrows. I make an ass of myself. I miss my train. I sleep on the sidewalk. I never saw her again. I never even got her name. This was 12 years ago. I've been with beautiful women since then. I've had fun with them. None of them ever came close to giving me that feeling ever again. I still never forgot her face or her smile.
