This girl has been obsessed with me for the past 4 years and I don't what to do about it. When we first met years ago she fell in love with me but we fell apart. One month ago we reconnected, went on a date and had sex, but when we were on bed she confessed to me that she hasn't stop thinking and dreaming about me for the past 4 years and was expecting for this to happen and wanted us to be a couple.I rejected her but I'm still in contact with her because I feel bad for the whole thing, I tried to be a genuine friend but she still insists on coming to my home, seeing me in person, going out on dates and even having sex .I liked beingan object of desire at first but now it's getting to the point where I'm kinda afraid for my safety and I want her to stop, but I don't know how to minimize the damage when I tell her that because I'm afraid she'll do something stupid (self harm, suicide, hurting others, etc.)I'm well aware that what's happening is not right and she should seek medical help immediately
The person who should seek help is you for turning down your soul mate you damn normie
>>33889066Bro will regret turning her down in 3 years
>>33889066Stay the fuck away from her. I speak from experience. It will continue to get worse in the long run if you enable her, in a slow insidious kind of way that you don't notice in real time. If you cut things off with her, it will probably get worse in the short term but you can protect yourself and eventually she will go away for one reason or another.Don't feel bad for her, and don't try to be her friend. She will only use that against you. Remember you are part of her delusions, and the best thing you can do for her and yourself is to not feed into that.Some early morning ramblings to maybe help:It does feel nice at first to be the object of her desire but remember it's for her, not for you, no matter how much she spoils you.What you need to do to minimize damage is a few things. Prepare beforehand. In whatever way seems best to you (ideally remotely), you need to be assertive and tell her up front with no trickery that you're leaving and she will never see you again. You have to be finalistic about it, but also respectful. Tell her she needs help. Expect resistance as she feels threatened and will try to convince you otherwise. Block her, and advise your family and friends to do the same if they have her number. Be ready for her showing up at your house or whatever. Check your locks and keep your phone ready to call the police. Get a restraining order if you need to. And again, advise your family to do the same. Remember that this is real life and not some doujin and there really isn't much she can do if you don't let her. But you have to be ready to stand your ground.As for suicide, as cold as it sounds that's not your problem. She doesn't give a fuck about you, otherwise she wouldn't be tormenting you like this. So you shouldn't give a fuck about her either. Plus she probably won't actually do it and is more likely to just rebound to someone else or to end up institutionalized in the worse case scenario.
Why do bastards like OP is the one getting lucky like this? Obsession for 4 years is so fucking rare.You can already tell OP is a cheating bastard wanting to move on. I hope he dies sooner for all his sins.
>>33889066I accept all of my Maria.
>>33889066lucky bastard
>>33889490Anon, I hope you can recover after whatever you went through
>>33889066Read the book behead all satans by nmdr and realize that having a mentally ill stalker isn't a good thing.
>>33889490OP please do this and get out of that alive
>>33889106>>33889142>>33889964Listen, it may sound enticing but the reality is soul draining, I feel like I can't live my life because I have to care of a sick person. And the sex wasn't even that good, she used me as a her dildo for 2 hours and I didn't get to cum because my penis hurt most of the time>>33889490Yeah you're right I wish it was like a doujinshi
>>33889066where did you meet her btw?
