How do I live with the fact that I"ll never know what it feels like to be loved? To start a family, to have children, marriage in general.I will turn 35 next week, it's too late for anything real. I've accepted it, but it still hurts. No woman ever wanted me. I have never touched a woman without paying for it. My only crime is being brown and short. I know i have to make peace with my reality, not everyone was meant to be loved and I wasnt one of the lucky ones. But every now and then the pain returns and its hard to endure every time.
You were meant to experience love, with a fat single mom. There are plenty of fat single moms looking for love.Don’t be cruel to yourself by denying yourself a relationship. You just have to lower your standards. You’ll find love in those tender rolls of fat and the smile of a child who isn’t your own.
>>33889550I won't read how to cope threads. There is no "cope," only "do." I won't read them because such posters are immune to any advice that can be given and are a waste of one's time, remonstrating with them and trying to penetrate their acting out bs.
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c'est la vie. as a man you still have time tho. one of my business partners grinded through his 20s and 30s and only made kids at like 44 I think. it's not over yet. still the older you are, the more you have to excel. so start working
>>33889555kekprobably my favorite post now
>>33889550anon the way you shuold deal with that is to find some other purpose in life>No woman ever wanted me. I have never touched a woman without paying for it. My only crime is being brown and short.one of your crimes is paying for sexi can understand it but it's kinda ridiculous to lament after that point
you dont need to cope, you need to be happyyou dont need all that shit to be happyyou just need to find shit that makes you happy that isnt just retarded shit like; drugs, eating, buying shit and what ever else stupid consuming activities there areyou can watch good moives and learn how to cook, but dont turn into some fat ass "foodie" and just watch slop shit all the timetheres men who have the happyness of s child who have never seen a women beforeyou are also more likely to get a gf if you can make your self happybecause being pleasant and having shit going on in your life is attractivebut dont go down the performative male route, youd be more misrable and attract no one doing stupid shit to impress people that you dont want to
>>33889555I'd date and marry a fat woman, even a fat black woman, I'm not that picky to say no to a beautiful Nubian queen. But a single mom? Never. They're glorified prostitutes, leeching off men to keep their kids afloat, they are not looking for love but resources. I'd rather pay for a professional prostitute in that instance, they're usually hotter and asks for less.>>33890067Understandable >>33890396thanks>>33890417Its important to retire from the game with dignity, if i can't get anyone with a head full of hear i can't imagine how it will be once i go bald in my 40s.>>33890446>one of your crimes is paying for sexhuman contact is important, try to understand how would you feel in my position.>>33890512>drugs, eating, buying shit and what ever else stupid consuming activitiesI've never been that type of man>theres men who have the happyness of s child who have never seen a women beforeyes but those men didn't knew what they were missing>you are also more likely to get a gf if you can make your self happythat's a well intentioned lie but a lie at the end of the day, thanks anon I know you took your time to help out an stranger like me.
>>33890840>they dont know what they are missingthen why are they more happy then most people?>its a lie that being happy makes you more attractivewhy would being unhappy be as a attractive or more attractive then happy?if you are un happy you you might drag your negativity in or have a hard time making other people happyhappy people tend to make people more happy then non happy people
