Feels like I’m always getting yelled at and I am starting to hate my life>Do the dishes>Get yelled at for wasting water>Use less water and get yelled at for not doing a good enough job cleaning>Get yelled at for not scrubbing properly so I scrub harder>Get yelled at for being too rough>Stop doing the dishes so I don’t get yelled at but then I get yelled at for not doing the dishes>Get yelled at for not planning a date for her>get yelled at for asking her where she wants to go instead of knowing>Get yelled at for choosing a place that she didn’t have in mindMy entire life now is just being scared of being yelled at, trying not to be yelled at, and doing everything I can to not be yelled at but I get yelled at anyways. It seems the more I try not to get yelled at the more I get yelled at. I’ll do exactly what she says and she’ll still yell at me for some reason
>>33889685Couples counseling. It isn't something you are doing wrong, so there isn't really anything you alone can do to fix this. It has to be a solution that changes your wife's behaviorIf she doesn't agree to therapy, you could threaten to leave or to not have sex
>>33889685Don't yell back, just tell her to get fucked and if she wants the dishes washed a certain way she can do it herself. I tell my girl the same thing. I'm doing X chore and im gonna do it my way. If she doesn't like it she can do it herself. She usually shuts up and apologizes. I don't have to get mad though because she isn't being a crazed bitch like yours apparently is.She could genuinely just be broken but I have a feeling you're giving out big pussy vibes OP.
>>33889685Just nod and say uh huh honey while ignoring everything she says or does.
>>33889685Something else is probably causing her to act like this (she doesn't give a fuck about the water). How you get to that, you would know better than I. If you ask her what's wrong directly as a start?Don't let this start a problem with you. This caused me to start going to a bar after work instead of home to chill for a second. A drinking problem grew.
>>33889851>Don't let this start a problem with you. This caused me to start going to a bar after work instead of home to chill for a second.Did you pick up any baddies and bang em in the back seat of your car?
>>33889869I got fired for fucking a hooker in my office after hours. Does that count?But seriously, bars are filled at happy hour with men drinking in that period from the end of the work day, to dinner. Slamming drinks because theyre about to go from the frying pan into the fire of a shouting battleaxe of a wife.This how it starts.